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My boyfriend gets mad at me for talking to multiple guys back when i was single. they were nothing serious, just casual talks on facebook. i always kept my options open. i dont get why it bothers him so much.. but he was in a relationship for 4-5 years before me. i mean if he wanted to keep his options open, he could’ve 🤷🏻♀️ i didnt put a gun to his head to choose to be with me. GIVE ME AN ANSWER. Lol
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Woah so he's mad at you for something you did before you started dating? Or are you still talking to the guys now?
If he's mad at you for something you did before you were together, that's just ridiculous. If you're still talking to the guys it's still no big deal, but it can get complicated. But that doesn't sound like the case.
Sounds like he might have some insecurity that's triggered by all this. Are you able to talk it out, or does he just get mad and that's the end of discussion?
Replythe guys were way before we started talking/dating. everytime he gets mad at it, i tell him i dont understand because he’s acting like i cheated on him. and i said the past is the past and there is absolutely nothing wrong with talking to multiple guys. but he tells me the past is still MY past and its a part of me. i just think he’s mad that he “wasted” his 5 years on his ex and didnt get to “explore”. but he just acts like nothing happened. we can never talk it out and make it work.
Replyomg yea I think you pegged it. If he gets so mad about your past, it's probably because he's jealous that you had a past he never had. He totally wasted his chance to enjoy life, and now he's holding it against you :/
Replydude, you just found out the answer to your own question.
I would be mad to (not about you tho) about myself. 5 years is a long time to waste with someone who never stayed.
ReplyHonestly If you were talking to him while you were single and talking to others there isn't anything wrong with that. If you TOLD him that you were talking to others WHILE talking to him in the start then he really doesn't have the right to be upset because you were open about it. I can maybe understand if he's a little bit upset if you didn't tell him before hand and he THOUGHT he was the only one but he still has to understand. Honestly be open with him and TELL him to spill out his feelings about the situation and tell him you love him but you aren't gonna put up with his immaturity either. Tell him he's either gonna have to communicate and talk to you about the situation or drop it. Overall tell him he needs to communicate with you because you can't understand unless he tells you how he feels and that he's a grown ass man not a child. He's in a relationship and he needs to communicate instead of being that child who's mad at their parent but won't tell them why. If he doesn't wanna talk overall tell him that you were sorry if you didn't tell him but if you did state that you TOLD him and that you were just talking at the time you didn't know how things were gonna go and that you can't change the past but you can talk and communicate about it and then let it go. Tell him that you're with him now and that the past is the past you can't change that you can only talk about it. If he's gonna continue to act like a child drop the conversation until he stops being a baby or honestly get therapy for your relationship if it continues. Communication is key and if he really loves you he'll communicate and try to understand and you'll try to understand as well but you can't read his mind. Hope everything goes well :) Just remember to remind him that you love him but you aren't gonna let him act like a child either.
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