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I have liked my best friend for the longest time now and I have no idea how to tell her. Everywhere I go, I'm told that I should just tell her. My friends, people on Novni, and even counselors have tried convincing me to tell her that I have feelings for her. I honestly have no idea where to start and I'm full of anxiety. What if she doesn't feel the same way? Will it affect our friendship? Will it be my fault? My other friend started liking her after he knew I liked her, if I tell her will he be angry? Will he hate me? Will my crush want to stop being friends with me? I know she probably won't and she would kindly turn me down but I'm still extremely worried about the outcome. I really am happy with the way things are and I don't want to ruin them but other people are telling me that I have to tell her how I feel. But I literally have no idea how and I don't know if that's the right thing to do either. Anyways, please let me know in the comments if I should tell her or not, and if I should, how. Please give me some tips.
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I know the feeling of being anxious. Especially trying to tell your best friend you like them. You should try writing her a letter and put into words on paper what you can't say to her in person. Tell her how you really feel and let her know you don't want this to affect the relationship you guys have now. If she is really your best friend she will be there for you no matter the outcome. who knows maybe she might feel the same way and is also too nervous to tell you.
ReplyWoah thank you so much for this advice! I never thought of writing a letter... You're so smart! Thank you so much again this really gave me hope. :)
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