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i.. am feeling disgusted with my friends lately I guess. I've (quietly) had trouble with them for a few years now. I've never felt like I'm able to talk to them about important stuff and it's made me feel terrible. and they never seem to tell me anything, either. It feels like I'm always the last to know about things and I find out months later. it makes me wonder if there's a problem with me.
recently a few of them made a big deal about not feeling included which has me very bitter because I don't feel included a lot of time. I suppose that could be clouding my judgment a bit and making me react to things irrationally but at this point, I don't care. Because of corona, we've all been talking over a group chat. The other night, three of us were jokingly arguing over salt and vinegar chips and two of them left the chat. They made it a big deal when someone eventually noticed that they had left because the person only initially noticed one of them being gone. And then they left again. I was messaged by someone else, not by either of the two, about how they've been feeling left out and I was lectured about it. And then they finally accept being back the next day, I'm assuming they asked to be added back, and act as if everything's the same and
I'm bitter and there's a lot of built-up resentment. A few of them are talking about how they'd totally be doing drugs if they weren't around their families during the holidays ahahahahah so quirky ahah. It's disgusting and not funny
Up until today I've been ignoring the messages and not participating at all, and (I know this is very very petty) it doesn't seem like any of them have noticed. For a while, I've been thinking about "slowly falling out of touch" with them once I go to college. I've only said a few things in the chat and I even told them that I was upset and only one of them acknowledged what I said, but I don't know what to tell him.
I don't really like them right now and I find myself not really caring. I mean I do care, but not as much as I feel like I should.
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There is anger in your post as you are obviously not happy with this group so leave them. This isn't a group that you are fitting comfortably in.
ReplyIt’s perfectly ok to ‘fall out of a group’. It’s actually a part of life. Everyone grows in different directions and at some point, your group of friends no longer feel like a group of friends. And that’s normal. ☺️ I hope things go well! Do what you feel in your heart! If you are not genuinely happy talking with them, what’s the point? Do what you need to do to be happy. Stay happy and stay strong! 💕
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