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i think i’m losing my best friend

2 years ago · 5 · I need help, +7


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my best friend has been more distant with me and we were on call with some other friends and she was being very rude to me specifically. i'm a very jealous person and she was talking “flirting” with our other friend (flirting is our joke) and cussing me out, so obviously i’m upset but now i feel horrible because she must’ve been happy and having fun with our friend and i was just being down and annoying. i don’t think she considers me a best friend anymore. am i a bad person? how do i get rid of my jealousy? how can i get her to stop being rude? and how can i get things back to normal ? i miss her :c

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  • Novni Guest · 2 years ago

    lol where are u from?

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    • Novni Guest · 2 years ago

      canada

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  • 1_Anonymous_1 · 2 years ago

    That sounds like it hurt you pretty badly. Just talk to her about the situation. Tell her you didn't appreciate her being rude and cussing you out you can ask if she thinks of you as a best friend. If she says sorry and means it that's great work up your friendship from there, but if she is rude about it or mean I wouldn't recommend staying friends with her. Sometimes people are in our lives to teach us how to let go and that's okay. If you don't stay friends with her then cry for a few days do what you need to do and try to make some new friends. Don't stay friends with someone who makes you feel sad or is rude to you.

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    • Novni Guest · 2 years ago

      thank you :)

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  • Anonymous16 · 2 years ago

    Ask her what's wrong and ask if you're still friends. It always helps to ask questions instead of not because you'll never know if you don't

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