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i am in a relationship right now (almos 5 years) but i feel like i should be with someone else... i feel like my boyfriend isn’t “the one” but i don’t know how to let go. it’s been so long, our families are close, there’s so much time invested but i close my eyes and i don’t see myself in their picture or see him in mine. i don’t know if it’s because we’ve never talked about this. marriage, kids, home... i’ve tried to talk about it but he doesn’t feel comfortable. only time we’ve talked about this is when we’ve been really bad (almost about to break up) and he just brings that up: “i wanna marry you” “you are the love of my life” “i wanna be with you for the rest of my life” and i just..... dont buy it. why you only tell me this when you are about to lose me? it feels manipulative. at the time time i just don’t want to let him go and even if i wanted to i just don’t know how. sometime i feel like it’s the right thing to do but i don’t wanna break his heart and i don’t wanna regret it in the future...
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This is cliché but follow your heart.
ReplyDid that bad time only happen once? Keep in mind, he could have been scared.
If it keeps happening every other time, that's perhaps a very telling sign.
Replynope. it happened more than once...
ReplyAfter five years you should at least be engaged. He may never marry you so if you really don't want him let him go.
Replyim not ready to marry. i just finished college and im about to start my first job next year but the point is not that we arent married yet. the point is that i dont think he wants to marry ME, ever...
ReplyI understand why you think about all those things such as all the time you’ve put into the relationship and your families are close. But the biggest thing is whether or not you are happy. If you don’t see yourself with him and especially if you don’t feel like he’s the one, then he’s probably not the one. It is completely your choice, but if you decide to end your relationship with him, it will most likely be tough, but you’ll probably be happier and eventually find the right person. Someone who you can see a future with and it does feel right to you. Just always put yourself and your own feelings first because you deserve to be happy above all.
ReplyMaybe try taking a break from the relationship and see how you feel. If it makes you happier or not. In my opinion, I think you should do what you. DO what makes you happy. --
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