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6 years ago my bf slept with a girl he thought was unimportant to him and didn't want a relationship with and he and I were casually seeing each other through the internet at the time almost getting serious. I didn't know about this girl until a year and half later though and it broke my heart when I found out because even though we were casual he still slept with someone else. I respect his decision to tell me and he feels horrible for doing it since he didn't think our relationship was going to bloom at that time point in time. But what has really ate away at me was that the girl would post about him all the time online about how he was her lost love, and still posts stuff about him till this day. I started to think about how ugly I am and comparing myself to her constantly. I know my bf didn't mean for this to happen and I'm trying to put this behind me but it's really difficult that after 6 years this girl still posts about him for being in his life for a fleeting moment. I feel like she stalks me as well to see if I have updates on him. And honestly, sometimes I play it to my advantage because I want to hurt her for hurting me. This is a toxic cycle I'm trying to get out of now, but sometimes I think I'm far too gone.
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Wow so she knows he's in a relationship with someone and still continues to post about him? I'm curious as to whether or not he's aware of this. And if so, why hasn't he checked her about it? Sounds like she'd smash him any chance she gets. Beware I think.
ReplyHe has tried to send a message to her through one of their mutual friends that he wanted her to stop and tried explaining to her that what they had wasn't meant to be a relationship. He told me he had this talk with her as well while they were in "relations". But I think she took it the other way, where she wants to post more. I don't know what to do honestly. Should I message her and tell her how this makes me feel? Or is it too late and should I just leave it and write about it in my journal?
ReplyI think your bf is lying to you for one.....i think you are lying about her too. Move on and let things end.
ReplyWell that's kinda rude. My bf tried to be as clear as he possibly could be to her about their relationship and she still does what she has been doing. I'm just trying to solve my internal issues but thanks for the bad advice?
ReplyI am sorry about that bad advice you received.
ReplyEven after talking to her she misinterprets it, he can block her on social media so she won't be able to tag him.
or maybe she understands it all but isn't ready to accept it
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