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ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he is my soulmate I know it. but in the last month ive been getting so jealous and angry and stroppy I dont know what to do. I get jealous when he's excited about something or does well in something even though im extremely happy for him. I get upset when he takes ages to reply because he's out with his friends. he struggles to keep a boner some times and he says it's performance anxiety but im so insecure and I cant help but feel like its my fault because im not pretty enough. am I toxic or can I fix this/ do I need to fix this? is it normal? please help me.
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ReplyI can only offer advuce from my own experiences with relationships. I've been with a boy who I also consider my soulmate for 3 years now. And I've had phases of incredible jealousy. The best thing in my experience is to talk to your partner about your feelings! Tell them that you've been feeling jealous of his accomplishments etc. And maybe he will be able to say just the things you need to hear! You will yourself accomplish so many things in your life yourself, and your partner will probably be there to celebrate them with you.
The other problem is also completely normal, I can assure you it is not your fault! Many boys/men have that problem especially when the relationship is fresh! (Btw. It has nothing(!) To do with them finding you attractive or not, they could be madly attracted to you and still have that issue) Trust your partner, when he says it's not your fault but stress he is making himself. Try to make him feel as comfortable as you can, there is not much more you can do.
Relationships are hard. I doubt that you are toxic, maybe you just need a little more encouragement and wins yourself! But I am sure if he is the right one that all of these issues wilm work themselves out. Try not to stress to much, if they weren't in love with you they wouldn't have chosen to be in a relationship with you.
Hope that helped
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ReplyIf he cared that you aren't pretty enough he wouldn't be with you. You seem to be very stressed over these things. Relax and take deep breaths for a while and just go with the flow. You should give him his life and you have yours, be together, and take a relaxing approach to everything. He probably does have performance anxiety because you are so uptight and anxious about everything. You can fix this by being laid back and not caring so much about things. If you weren't insecure you wouldn't get jealous, and you know when he is out with his friends so don't contact him then and be grateful for the time you have to yourself. The reason people are angry in a relationship and don't know why is because their partner is selfish so check if he is like this.
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