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3 months ago · · Humanity,
We all have hurt someone's feelings once in our lives. (If you never did, wow that is very strong of you to hold onto what you wanted to say, jk lol) I will admit, I used to be a very immature person, probably a little bit today but I am trying to be more mature since I am approaching adulthood, which is a little bit scary. I definitely didnt think the things I said we're going to hurt the person talking to me until years later (Today) I absolutely regret it and am not proud of it. POINT: Us humans during under pressure situations we dont have self-control and we will never master it, but I believe we could one day. Once you are in one of these situations like talking to one person during a problem, confrontation, whatever it is, we are most likely to reveal something that can really offend a person WITHOUT thinking before we release it. It can really reveal what kind of person you are and what you're thinking about that person in a very personal level. I wanted to write about this because about 2 nights ago I was thinking about a video I watched weeks ago before that, a smosh pit video on youtube and it was a "Who knows me better" video to be exact. This particular video was getting to know shayne (one of the members), he asked "What is my worst fear?" He responded that he was scared of hurting someone, I believe in a deep level. (I LOOOOOVEEE smosh pit, It is soo awesome, I have been loving all their videos and they're very funny. I have the biggest crushes on Damien and Shayne lol. If you dont know this channel, I HIGHLY recommend watching them when you are feeling down, they will make you make you feel up again, get it haha) So this got me thinking about how can I treat a person during any under pressure situation where I could potentially hurt the person's feelings in any way. I thought of this in my head (Picture this): Imagine you are holding a VERY expensive flower vase with ONE hand. (The flower vase represents the person you are talking to). You are saying very mean things to them. (You are struggling to balance the vase with your hand) Then you really hurt their feelings, but not only their feelings. (You just dropped the base and it broke to pieces) There are many people in this world that do this to almost anyone in their life and they don't feel like or care that they hurt the people with their words. (They leave out all the broken pieces of every vase they ever broke and they dont have the necessity and don't want to go back and put all each of them back together) Until it's too late, they can't right their wrongs and take back what they said or they might take them very long for the person to apologize to them. (They come back and try to put the pieces back together but unfortunately, all of the pieces of each vase are scattered and gone and they don't know which pieces belong to which vase.) I want everyone that reads this to take something out of this representation if you might have hurt someone in the future and to also prevent yourself to potentially hurt someone in the future so please, PLEASE keep every single flower vase balanced in your hand everyday of your life, next time, hold them with BOTH of your hands! Also remember that wherever you are talking to someone, you may not be conscious about this but there is a person in the corner that is always WATCHING and LISTENING to everything that you are doing and saying to that person and it can lead to a very harsh consequence. So be VERY careful with that. As always, thank you for reading this. Please take care of yourself, Stay in school, smoke crack (jk PLEASE DONT DO IT, but you get the joke lol. REALLY, dont do it), and remember SHUT UP!! (I REALLY didnt mean to offend anyone with that, that phrase used to be a Smosh pit video intro for years then later they stopped using it. Until this year because it's smosh pit's 15th ANNIVERSARY!!! please, for their anniversary please go and support them, they're incredible.)