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I’m not sure if I can explain my problem
I just feel like I don’t deserve to live I graduated uni with a degree I hate just because my parents want me to have a degree and now I disappointed them and wasted their money. At first2 years I couldn’t find a job it’s either I’m bad or I don’t have the nationality. Then I stopped looking because I don’t know what I want it’s been 4 years now with me doing nothing even a hobby. It’s like I’m stuck in a depression hole and I can’t get out of it. Help me please I hate having the feeling that I don’t deserve to live and getting thoughts of ending things
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First of all, don't end it, it's a permenant solution to a temporary problem. Stay, because you're worth it. Second of all, I won't lie and tell you this is going to get better overnight - you're going to feel like this for a while, but this is preparing you to have the strength for what is to come because it is so much better than what has come before. You've been dealt a shit hand, you have a degree you hate, but you have a degree, you have skills which can be applied to anything. So get up, and try and find something you love, be patient - it will take a while. In the meantime, keep looking for jobs, keep doing what you're doing, try and make small changes because the small changes add up. Be kind to yourself, we're in the middle of a global pandemic, jobs are rare at the moment, happiness is hard to come by. But where there is no sunshine, be the sunshine. Find a reason, no matter how small, to get up every day. It will be hard, but you DESERVE to be alive, you DESERVE to be happy.
ReplyMy parents have always told me "Your education isn't a waste of money because even if you don't use it, you still have a degree. No one can take that away from you". It's okay to not know what you want to do in life. Heck, I feel like the degree I am going for I have but for the job I want, maybe I actually might not the degree for it. It's also okay not to be like everyone else in which I think we have that mentality that we want everyone to be perfect. Just be yourself, do what you want to do. Pursue what makes you happy and who tf cares if it doesn't make you alot of money as long as it makes you happy and you enjoy liking what you are doing. I wish I could learn that for myself still but I can't.
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