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I wasn't expecting to fall in love this quarantine. But I did. Hard.
He isn't from here. He just came here to work for his cousin for just a year. I really didn't like him at first since we only met on Facebook and played online games at first. But when we finally met face to face, I don't know, something happened. He had this charm, I won't deny it. He was tall, had a good physique and his shyness was cute.
We became friends and chatted nonstop. We started going out alone, without our friends and he called it a date and I thought it was cute. One thing led to another, we stared dating, like we held hands, we kissed and some other things. I asked him why hasn't he made it official yet. He told me he didn't want a commitment since he'd be going back to his hometown in a year and because we had different religion. I'm Catholic, he's a Muslim. It really was hard. But then, we talked and we took a chance.
Everything was going great. That feeling of exchanging our first I love yous, meeting his family; I had butterflies every time. I really felt that we were in love. He kept telling me he was so ready to settle down and have kids, and I did too. We started planning our future. I would move to his hometown and find a job. We would get married during our one year anniversary. We would talk for hours about anything and everything. It was like the universe was finally on my side. I was so excited about what's in store for us.
But then, he suddenly changed. It was killing me slowly seeing him losing interest. I don't know if I was just paranoid or what. But one thing's for sure, what I did pushed him further away.
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As a fellow muslim I really find it great u atleast got together bc of different religions. Im not really a muslim yk but I wanted to ask: How did his parents react? Were they kind to u or gutted he didnt get with a muslim girl?
ReplyWell, i'm assuming they didn't approve of the relationship. Not to stereotype all muslims but most of the muslims i've met are really religious. And you can take my perspective to be a biased one cause i'm a muslim too! ( minus the devotion and absolute belief in god, more like a muslim cause i dont have a choice yet?)
ReplyEXACTLY like Im not interested in religions so Ill just stay a "muslim" but Im not religious if that makes sense. I just dont wanna say it disappoint my family but their basically the same lmao its just idc about Bajram and those "special" days.
ReplyHaha yesss. It'd be weird if you were long lost twin at this point. I really don't wanna stay a muslim but i don't wanna be more of a disappointment so don't really have a choice....
ReplyWow you're much more educated than me. I didn't know who bajram was- but bakr-eid is goddamn scarring
ReplyIm actually not more educated haha. Wellll we albanian muslims call it Bajram while you call it Bakr-Eid. See I didnt even know that bc I have no interest, like ik a lot of things cause I grew up and act to my religious cousins as if I was muslim and wanted to become a religious man later but like I dont. And I wont. And im not ashamed tbh. But yea we seem to have the same life about this aspect haha Im sure a lot of muslim people around our age feel like this too.
ReplyI remember watching a goat get executed in front of me while its goat friend/sibling screamed in a really scary way-
ReplyLuckily I havent. Phew. Only thing is my parents told me so often as a kid that now im not interested in alcohol and drugs. Like yeah its unhealthy and all but like at one point u should try it i guess. Im just not attracted and dont want to disappoint my parents. My friends always tell me to take a sip but I never have. Im turning 18 soon and all my friends and people I know have tried it and most drink it. But yeah thats a different story.
ReplyThat's intriguing..."man"? oh no. sorry i hate people in general ( the irony that i'm here right now to ask for advice. FROM PEOPLE ) but i may or may not have had bad experiences with guys in the past. 18 ? woah you're older. I'm 16 and unfortunately a human female and please don't take me for one of those "i hate my parents cause they make me do chores" kinda gal. Well, drink ! you only live once even though life sucks. I'm sure serotonin would help so do drugs too. Is this bad advice from a person who wants to ba a lawyer-i take it back
ReplyYou're funny, I love it. Well idk about drinking cause my gf broke up with me a month ago and maybe I would fall in a hole. Lmao. Its also about my health I go to gym and jog a lot so those things would only fuck me up.."girl"? Im jk, well I dont hate people (maybe a lil bit). And I hate what ur parents make u do. We all do chores together but actually mostly I do them as a lil thank u to my parents bc I love them. Btw I grew up in a pretty feminist household thats why I love cleaning and doing chores. Before u ask: Yes im straight. And I said im turning 18 in 2 months so Im still 17. And OH i completely misunderstood that part with the chores. Sorry. Anyways gonna leave it there. And yeah boys are trash u cant change that but u will see there are good guys that will treat u soooooo good and make u feel wanted and loved. Thats only if u find a man which is very hard nowadays.
ReplyThat's fair how long did the relationship last if i may ask? Lucky youuu i's die to live in a feminist household and a non-toxic one! Why would i ask you your gender- i can just refer to you as he/she/they/( or maybe if you like being objectified ) it. Yeah..chores are fine unless you've got 2 more siblings but you do most of the work. smh Nooo..good guys don't exist. The theory i'm working on is that they are extraterrestrial beings disguised as humans. And over time they started to enjoy living here and are now a part of society. The hardly visible but existing part. I just want a dog. Dogs and cats are superior.
ReplyYou're damn lucky. I used to have nightmares- and apparently one goat for one family ain't enough. I shall puke-
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