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My mom, her mom (my grandma), and her sister (my aunt) thought I am a lesbian because of my hair and clothing style.
1 month ago · · Need Advice,
March 02, 2021. It's 2pm and I'm gonna eat my food for lunch. My grandma is talking to my aunt through video call and my grandma noticed my hair. (If you don't have a time, skip this.) I'm gonna describe my hair, my hair is black, I cut my own hair and I think it is shag mullet (i don't really know but it's kinda like that), and it is shoulder length. My grandma said "What are you doing to your hair?" and my mom said "Ye, right. Idk to her." We are at the dining table and I'm just smiling(fake) and fake laughing to them because If I say anything to them, I'm sure they will scold me if ykyk. My auntie said, "are you a tomboy (lesbian)?" and I said "no". Btw, here in our place, they use tomboy as lesbian, Idk why. I mentioned to my cousin before that I wanna cut my hair (koreanboy hairtype) and she said that to my mom! My mom said to them while I'm eating that I like those oversized clothes and I wanna cut my hair like boy's hair. I'm just smiling the whole time and I forgot to say, my auntie just repeated her question to me for like 5 times, "Are you a lesbian?", Lol. Idk why some ppl describe you as a lesbian if you cut your hair like those boy's cut and dress like a boy lmao, I don't get it. But, if I dress like a girl and it shows my cle*v*ge they be like "What the h*ck! What is that? Change your clothes." I really don't get it, pls help so I can understand it. I'm glad bcs I can control my anger and my mouth because If I can't, uh! I will gonna say something bad to them. Thanks if you read this.