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THIS IS CRAZYYYYY

1 month ago · 2 · Thoughts, +1


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Okay so i decided to ignore my best friend yesturday and today because she wont stop talking about this guy she likes. she emailed me today and asked me if i was mad at her and i just flipped. heres what i said

---"im not mad at you. im specifically mad about the fact that we cant have one conversation without you mentioning tyson at least 5 times. it was cute at first but now its turning into a wild obsession with him. i understand you like him. but i also understand that he is taken and doesnt like you like that. so you need to stop useless pining after him and getting your hopes up. although most dont, i actually care about you and your wellbeing and i dont really feel like having to watch you go down the path your going down. i know that your going to get your heart broken and i'll have to cheer you up again, just for you to find another guy who is gonna treat you poorly and get your heart broke again. im sorry, but i dont want to watch this happen again. im sick of it. your the only one that can make this choice for you. ive told you many times that he isnt good for you and you just arent listening, so either make the right choice, or you can go through this heartbreak without me, because im not sticking around to watch this sick cycle again"----

yes, one really long email, i know. i thought she'd be mad at me or something, but NO. she emails me back with this

---"wow.... bout time..... i was doing that to see if you would do that or sugar coat your feelings!!!!!!!!!!!! you really are one of my real friends"-----

SHE TRICKED ME! but i passed the test..... so thats good....this is just so f***ing crazy! i literally thought she was obsessed with this bad boy kid at our school, but no, she just didnt want to lose me and wanted to test if i was a real friend. thoughts?

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    That was one way to find out if you were a real friend. I hope your friendship with her lasts.

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    • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

      i hope so too

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