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I have a question for you all. Have you ever ghosted someone before? If so, what was the reason? I'm very curious as to why people do this because I've always been so forward with my communication. Please let me know so I can get some insight!
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I ghosted people before.
1. Once I ghosted this girl bc she was too clingy and would always cry and say she needed me in her life which got so fucking annoying that I just blocked her.
2. I blocked this girl because she was not that pretty and was a total bitch and would always send me ass pics as I needed them or something, she disrespected her body which killed me.
3. I liked a girl so I blocked the other one because I just did not want to hurt the one I care for
4. Best friend of two years. I and she were like brothers and sisters but she lied to me so much and told me she never lies and whoever lies to her gets blocked it hurt me so much but I loved her so I created a fake problem with her and we got into a fight and I blocked her.
5. Blocked my boy bc he fucked my sister.
6.ghosted this one girl bc she was a one-night stand type of thing and I did not want to see her again.
7. Blocked almost everyone because I was in a very bad and angry faze. deleted all of my social media and the only thing I have now is insta and TikTok.
The point is love, you can ghost in any way. I'm a dude. hope this got ur perspective and im 18 so yay
ReplyI have had to do this several times. Usually if I had any inclination that the relationship meant something to the other person, I wouldn’t ghost them. If not, I’m out. Leave before they leave you behind. You are not obligated to provide an explanation, apology, or anything else. Especially if they never made you feel you were wanted in the first place. Just walk away before it’s too late.
ReplyThank you for that. I had to leave the person behind because whenever I would talk about my feelings he would just ignore me and change the subject. I sent him a "goodbye" text but in hindsight, he did not deserve it.
ReplyI had a very close online friend a few years back, and it wasn't through a good man. She's always been clingy and attached to her boyfriends so whenever it backfires she blamed me and everyone around her. In 2020 she met this guy and I was happy for her but I also cheated on my boyfriend for multiple months on the internet. She didn't tell me it was a bad idea or anything like that which I don't blame her for but she encouraged it a lot. He forgave me I still blame myself everyday it's something I'm working on nobody's perfect I regret it deeply. My friend hated her boyfriend having friends who were girls and did nothing wrong so when I wouldn't agree with her or she wanted my advice but didn't like what I had to say she'd get mad. I realized it was toxic so in October 2020 I tried cutting it off. She respected me at first and I sent a long beautiful message about how I appreciate what she's done and she's helped me but I felt we were better if we went our ways. The next few weeks she'd message me and act like we were friends then she'd send me hateful messages. She asked to call and ask more questions about why I did it so she could move on so I did call her. She wanted to be friends again and for a second I was weak and said "okay" I realized it was still toxic and everyone told me to ghost her because she was causing me to have panic attacks about the hateful messages she'd send. Eventually it worked out, but she messaged my boyfriend who I didn't tell because he had enough on his plate. I simply told him it was the past, and she was my friend who encouraged me to cheat on him and call other guys. I walked away before I knew other bad things would happen.
ReplyAh, I could definitely see where ghosting was needed in this situation.
ReplyI wanna know to lol I’ve never been ghosted by a guy but my best friend ghosted me over some stupid shit and I’m tired of her becuz Ik I deserve a friend who’s gonna reply. Just like you should!
ReplyWhat makes you feel as if you deserve anything? No one owes you anything. So what exactly makes you feel as if you deserve it?
Replythat's where it gets complicated. it's different when someone literally leads you on. I don't "deserve" anything other than the good or bad I put out into the world. but it still hurts. Deep down, most people just want to know why they weren't enough. The truth is not hard to tell, so why withhold it?
ReplyThis is where the line between I deserve and entitlement divides. I used to side with, “I am entitled to have an answer” and being called and an entitled b****. Now I don’t even waste my breath with any kind of explanation on trash people. Especially if you mean absolutely nothing to them. I just walk away and find something/someone better. Even if you spoke the truth they would call you a liar and humiliate you. Why bother wasting your time on those people that are not worth it?
ReplyListen I’m fine being a entitled bitch because I treat people the way I want to be treated. I treated my friend like a sister. I brought her along family functions, and she came over to my house multiple times, and I made meals for her. She doesn’t need to write a fucking paragraph she just needs to say one thing to reply and I’d understand she’s uncomfortable speaking or texting me. Plus I’m honest and nice
Replyi don't ghost because i don't see the point in it haha. ghosting ends up hurting people too so...
anyway, according to a friend who ghosts a lot (LOL), she says it's cause sometimes she gets insanely guilty. she can't handle giving someone the truth, because sometimes that "someone" can't swallow the truth. she doesn't intentionally want to ghost, but she does it anyway because she gets scared of confronting the person.
ReplyYes I have. The reason? None whatsoever. They were just plain fake using cold-hearted people or I didn't fit their good enough category apparently. It's why I don't get close to people anymore.
ReplyUnderstandable
ReplyI've only done it once to this boy I met in Seattle. We're both from Hawai'i but he's on Oahu and I'm on the Big Island. I got his number and we started talking and at first I liked him and he liked me but for me it got kind of weird. We both went to Seattle to celebrate my cousins birthday but were not related in any way. He would say things like he missed my family with kissing emojis and it was kind of weird to me. I'm the type of person that likes things slow because if they take it fast I get weirded out easily. I don't know why but that one emoji got me all weird and I couldn't talk to him anymore.
ReplyI've never ghosted anyone. Actually, that's a lie. I've ghosted two people because they ignored me for weeks and finally I decided I'd ignore them too. Some people just won't listen. Plus, it makes someone SO angry when they can't let you know they're mad at you since you just ignore them! Sometimes it's more fun to make someone upset like THAT if they do something wrong. But still, I don't ghost people even though I understand why people do.
Replyi dont ghost people, i 𝔀𝓪𝓲𝓽 𝓾𝓷𝓽𝓲𝓵 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝔂 𝓼𝓪𝔂 𝓼𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓽𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔀𝓮𝓲𝓻𝓭 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓭𝓸𝓷𝓽 𝓽𝓮𝔁𝓽 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶 𝓫𝓪𝓬𝓴 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝔀𝓱𝓮𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝔂 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓻𝓽 𝓽𝔂𝓹𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓰𝓪𝓲𝓷 𝓫𝓮𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝔂 𝓼𝓮𝓷𝓭 𝓪𝓷𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻 𝓽𝓮𝔁𝓽 𝓲 𝓫𝓵𝓸𝓬𝓴 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓶 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓽𝓱𝓻𝓸𝔀 𝓶𝔂 𝓹𝓱𝓸𝓷𝓮 𝓽𝓸 𝓲𝓷𝓭𝓲𝓪
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