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1 month ago · 4 · Thoughts, +3


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I wonder how nice it would be to be in a real and sweet relationship with a sweet and honest guy.

Sadly, the few times I talked to guys they were either liers, just playing, or want to take advantage of me. That's why I've been single for a really long time.

I'm almost 24, and I'm actually happy and in peace that I'm single. But sometimes I also feel that I want love in my life, because I love to love and make someone smile and stand by them. I've been always the type who gets attached and love hard, and I guess that hurt me a lot but at the same time, I think it's really sweet to love a man with all my heart and make sure they're always happy with me.

Do you think I will ever experience that?

I wonder..

But anyway.. thanks for reading 💙

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    24 is super young, when you put it into perspective. OF COURSE, you will experience love, you have so many years ahead of you, dont feel like you are behind, or missing out. On top of that, from this post alone I can tell you're a great person, so love will find you :)

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    Hii, I recognise a lot in your post. I'm also almost 24 and also had only bad experiences with love. I do not believe in "the one" because I think a lot of people can be a great match if you both are willing to fight for your love. So I have never been afraid to end up alone in the end or to never find someone.. for some it just takes more time. But I'd rather be in a meaningful relation that contains real feelings and love.. rather than to just settle for something because you want a relationship so bad. But that is my point of view. But I do want to say one thing: there is only 1 person that you have to make sure stays happy with you.. and that is yourself. As cliche as it sounds, its so true. When you find yourself in a relationship, allow yourself to be yourself and not be someone who the other person needs or wants you to be. If they dont love you for who you are than you deserve more and it will be their loss. Always remember that. You are here on earth to make yourself happy 😘

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  • Marcus_barry · 1 month ago

    hey love I'm not even 20 yet ill be 20 in 2 years and I know so much. Guys take advantage when u meet them on the text just a fact but when u meet a guy in person that will make ur options better. Go out a bit go shopping and if u see a cute guy go up to him and ask if he is single. I know to forward but like if u want love then u have to be very open and determined to find love. or go on a dating app if u want but the person is better. and u find love when u least expect it.

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  • rottostranotipo · 1 month ago

    you will. . . :) at a perfect moment . . right place on an exact unexpected time . . .

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