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Confused

1 year ago · 2 · Need Advice, +2


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I’ve been chatting and talking with a guy that I met at work. He already confessed his feelings towards me and told me that he wanted me to be his girl. We’ve been chatting for almost 2 years but we rarely go out for a catching up since it’s pandemic. I feel like we have a potential to turn into a lover but he never ask me if he can officially court me. I have been waiting for him to ask it given that he wanted me to be his girl.He was open to me about his life and treats me like he really cares for me. I feel so confused and I am losing my faith that we could work.

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  • Marcus_barry · 1 year ago

    ask him out. guys fucking love that :)

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  • StrangerWithaHeart · 1 year ago

    Maybe instead of saying that he wants to court you he's just courting you with his actions. They say action speak louder than a word. But it's still up to you. if you want to give him a chance since you two are chatting and talking for almost two years you must take any kind of risk because loving is also hurting. :) If you feel that he is serious about his feelings for you why don't you give him a chance since he told you that he want you to his girl and I think he's doing his very best just to prove you that he really want you. ^_^

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