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Hi there,
first of all, I would just like to thank you for reading this. You have zero ideas, how much this means to me.
So here it goes...
There's this boy. We're friends. And not like friends-friends but like soulmates in a friend version you know? And the thing bothering me the most is that I don't know if we are more than that, or if we ever could be?
The problem is that we were so close but now I feel like we are falling apart. He is still so nice and everything but we haven't spent much time together ALONE in a long time. We used to see each other every single day, but now not anymore. He confessed his feelings towards me a long time ago (he was drunk and probably doesnt remember), but Idk if he still feels the same.
Idk, what should I do? I can not tell him I feel the same now because there is soooo much more on the line than just our friendship (trust me so much more).
But it would just be so easier to know how he feels... pls help
Much love <3
Sincerely, your friend :)
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He already confessed to you, and you are still friends. Does he have now a girlfriend? Because if he doesn't then I think that no matter how he feels now, your friendship will survive if you confess to him, but honestly I am not so sure that it will even if you don't tell him how you feel.
ReplyHe is single and so am I. But sometimes he talks about other women and Idk if he wants to make me jealous or not. And when I do the same thing and talk about other men he starts behaving so weird.
He confessed to me almost 1 year ago and serious happened since then, so now I'm all confused if he is still in the same position or if he moved on...
ReplyThere is only one way to know. If It's a true friednship, it will last no matter what. Sure if he says no it might be a bit weird for a bit, but you were able to handle it last time, so I am sure it wouldn't be a problem now either. And even this is the worst case scenario, because you might even end up together:)
On the other hand... wouldn't it even more weird if he were to have a girlfriend without you ever taking the chance to tell him how you feel?
ReplyI did not think of it that way.. thank you so much
ReplyI'm wishing you all the bests! ;)
ReplyIf he loves you, you would end up together. If he loves you but still says no, he's just not ready and there isn't much you can do. From the sound of this post, it sounds like you really want something more and deep down you wouldn't be really happy with a friendship. I say it's worth the risk, and if you agree with me... just ask him if he likes you too!
ReplyThe problem is I friendzoned him when he confessed to me and now when I started to feel something, he does not know. And I wanted to tell him so many times but I didn't because I'm afraid it will get weird. At the end of the day, I don't wanna lose him.
ReplyWell, ok, if you want to keep the friendship that's alright. But if you notice he might be starting to catch feelings again that's when you can make your move if you want.
ReplyAsk him how he feels about you and your friendship.
ReplyI mean we had this talk already multiple times. We cannot imagine how our lives would be without one another. And when people ask him what are we, he never addresses me just as a friend but he pauses for a while and gives some funny answer just to avoid the question.
ReplyYou can joke with him after sometime talking, say that once when he was drunk he confessed his feelings. Laugh it out but don't make it seem like you don't have any feelings.
It's risky but u can see his reaction then
Replythank u, I will try if the timing will be right <3
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