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I know this might sound pathetic but my best friend is my grandfather. After my grandmother passed away I moved in to take care of him because I loved...Now after years of taking care of him he now in the hospital for the possibly the last time. I've got no one to talk to about this no one asks how he's doing or how I'm doing. When I try to talk to people they don't seem interested.
Once he's gone what do I do I can't imagine him being gone. I can't even keep his house...this house he built. This house that has been near since the 50s is gonna get sold because he's leaving it to his son. Who does not want it.
Thanks to covid I can't even go and hold his hand I can't see his face I can't talk to him.
I miss hearing him tell me about his life. I even started writing his memoirs and now I can't ask him questions. I can't.........
I just want more time. Please got just 1 more year...please. One more year with him.
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You're not pathetic and you're truly kind and good hearted. I hope you get what you deserve...all the time you need with him.
Being his best friend and him being yours doesn't even in the slightest bit make you pathetic....I never liked my grandma much but now that she's no more...I feel such love towards my grandpa that I just can't bear to see him in any pain..
he had a paralysis attack last year and thank God he is fine.
Just trust God ...don't negate your thoughts and pray for him.Prayers work a lot. And...please don't think you're alone. I understand what you're going through..I really do.
There is no literal solution to your distress but please don't make yourself ill...just think how happy your grandfather will be when you finally get to meet him!! You'll be able to hold his hand and let him know someone loves him so much. And you will meet him..have faith..Because you're a good person. You deserve your best friend and so does he.
ReplyThats not pathetic at all. I think thats really sweet. Its going to be hard, but you'll get through it. Maybe you can find a way to buy the house back someday.
Replyeverything on earth that´s alive, must one day come to an end. i am sure your grandfather is really thankful to have you and he´d want you to move on. the memories you have with a loved one will forever be the most important, because as long as those memories are with you- the person will still be alive.
sending you much love <3
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