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i keep being called a bad friend by one of my best friends and they always talk themselves up n say how the make everyone feel loved n how they never get it back. i don’t feel loved by them ? in fact they make me feel rlly rlly bad. i don’t know if i’m just making them sound bad to fit my victim complex or not i don’t know who is wrong and who is right anymore. they stop talking to me for days and then i check up and see if they’re alive and they just vent to me. i am in no way emotionally available for that and they know that too. i have told them that maybe professional help would be the best thing for them because they do have rlly bad thoughts but they don’t want it so they are just suffering and taking me down with them. i feel that i am making them sound so bad but this is how my brain perceives them. am i a bad friend ? and also how do i try and comfort them next time ?
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I feel like a friendship shouldn’t be forced.... U sound like u r stressing yourself by trying to please this person. It has to be hurtful to be called a bad friend. A friend should take away pain, not make it for u.... and u don’t butter yourself up about all u do for others when it’s genuine and from the heart. U obviously care about this “friend” or u wouldn’t be around them anymore, at some point u have to ask yourself though what does that relationship positively do for u. Life’s just too short to live it on egg shells
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ReplyIf their making you feel inadequate for activly trying to keep this friendship in tact they don't deserve you, I'm an absolute doormat so I have alot of friends like this, please dont become like me
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