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my mom called me crazy and then said if I told her I hate her again shes going to throw me out...i have insomnia and its hard for me to sleep without my music. and she took me phone, and my phone has my music that I need to sleep at night and the radio music only talks about drugs and sex at this point. I'm so done with everything. Shes taking everything I love and know, and then calls me crazy because I finally snap at her and scream at her. I told her I hate her because of something I haven'ttold her. But I feel like I can no longer trust her. shes blatantly transphobic and homophobic
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ReplyI dont know. My mom will not let me go, and I don't have evidence because she took my phone away from me and my dad was sleeping. I'm so sick and tired of my household and I don't feel safe, and my mom is such a piece of shit, but i don't want to go into the system or have to leave my city because I've built a life with my friends and i cant loose them and i don't want to loose my dad or pet or brothers because i love them with my life, but because my beliefs don't align with my mother's beliefs, she treats me like absolute shit.
Replywell, if your issue is your phone, you can but an old cheap one for like $20. if you genuinely feel like you are unsafe staying at your house, that is not good. if you an, try talking to your father or your brothers, or maybe even your friends to figure out a better situation for you. Remember, what you are feeling is okay. Don't be ashamed of who you are, no matter the reaction from your mother. sometimes in life, we have to compromise. perhaps try to sit down and talk to your mother, perhaps with another adult present, and discuss the possibilities of what you could do
ReplyI'm so sorry, that sounds unbearable and your mother clearly doesn't know how to be a good parent if she keeps heaping punishment on you. I wish I could tell her to wake up, kids often say they hate their parents, that's not a reason to enact martial law. Do you have a father or another authority figure who could sort of mediate? It doesn't look like you'll get anywhere with your mother, she's in ballistic mode. About music... maybe this will help a little... you can create playlists on youtube of your favourite music. It'll have annoying ads but it's better than listening to the garbage on the radio. Sometimes I search youtube for full albums that play 40 mins without interruption. Your mom sounds like she sucks. lol I just had to say that. There's no excuse for trans/homophobia. The good thing is you won't be stuck there forever. Eventually you'll move out and be able to live your own life. And that's when your mom will get old and need you. Not endorsing revenge but... sometimes spite is a good motivator to keep going.
Replyhi there!I know you're going through a lot and I am in the same boat as you.You feel as if nobody understands your feelings; anyway sometimes music isn't the only thing in life even though it contributes a lot to relieve your stress and anxiety ....I have insomnia too..find a hobby..I watch the sky and think deeply before I go to sleep..there are various things you can try..maybe there's someone out there who can help?try to find your happiness..don't give up!!
ReplyI'm very sorry you have to go through this. :( maybe tell your dad about it? About the insomnia, if you can't find a way to listen to music at night, try meditating/ exercising to help you sleep at night. You can do this. Keep going.
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