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My sister is one of the most important people in my life. I love her very much and we used to be extremely close. She's in the military and since she went in I've seen her maybe ten times in the past seven years. She lives in London right now and she'll be stationed in Texas for two years in a few months. I have a friend in a city a little less than two hours away from where she and her husband will be. I've mentioned in the past that I would be willing to move down there when she gets there. The thing is I hate the idea of living in Texas. It's just way too hot for me and I love having winter where I live now. I also just started a relationship with someone and I really really like them. Should I suck it up and spend the time with my sister since it'll probably be the last time we get to live near each other for the next twenty years or so? Or do I make the time to visit once or twice over the next few years and stay where I'm at? I don't know where this relationship is going but if it were up to me I'd spend the rest of my life with them and if I have to end it to go to Texas I don't know if it'll be worth it.
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