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FIRST DATE, should the guy pay??🤔
1 month ago · · help me,
Heyyy!! So hear me out and the situation, I can definitely pay for my meal or go half and half, I have my own money too. No problem. BUT, I have been talking to this guy who I am trying to give a chance to, because he’s a really nice guy and got me a card and a flower for our first date. He picked me up, and things and then first we got a boba, he let me order my drink first and I was gonna order his too and he said “OH no, you go first” so then the bell rang and I was like ok fine I paid my drink, he paid his. So now that I paid I assumed the food was going to be the same thing with food, which yes I PaId my food. but that kind of threw me off a bit. I have always been accustomed to whoever invites pays! No matter man, or woman. But in this case since he called it a date and he invited me i assumed. Now please don’t come at me, I don’t expect expensive things and of course as we have more dates I would offer to pay. But I was just so used to the first date being paid by whoever is taking you out on that first date. Keep in mind I don’t want to just disqualify him overall because I know he is looking for a job. Right now he just tutors and he resells things online, so he might have a small profit right now. Which I understand, I don’t expect him to take me out on a super expensive date either when I know his situation. I don’t have feelings for this guy either, I couldn’t even kiss this guy. Or hug him when he asked me to hug him. I don’t feel attracted as much either. But the way I saw it when we were first talking was “Well he’s a nice guy so I’ll give him a chance” can you guys give me a second opinion please. Should I just leave him, since I feel no connection ?