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1 month ago · · Stress, · Explicit
I am so fucking confused. I have been talking to someone for a month. We talk all day. It's not one-word responses it's an actual conversation. When I'm quiet they ask if I'm ok. We've connected and share serious shit. They work a lot and so do I but I manage to find time to try and hang out almost every day. In the month that we have been talking, I've seen them twice. Their excuse is always that they're busy. They canceled on me once and that wasn't a big deal but I have been trying for almost two weeks straight to hang out. It doesn't have to be a long time or a big thing just grab a coffee and chat for even like a half hour. Since they have been so busy I told them that if they aren't interested in me I wouldn't hold it against them if they decided to call it quits and move on. When I say this they always get sad and say that it isn't anything other than them having a super busy week. At what point do I decide it's over? They got off at three today and when I asked them to hang out they said they had other plans. What am I supposed to do with that? Am I just being insecure? Should I give them all the time they need since I like them and they like me and that doesn't happen often for me? I just want the heavy feeling in my chest to go away and the only time it does is when I'm with them.