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1 year ago · · change,
Time changes things. Whether it be relationships, interests, your decisions, memories. Literally anything. It’s just the future and we’re all bound to experience it. But it’s the relationship you had that hits the hardest. Usually, when you don't really know, experience and look forward to a person that much, you just accept the change, you accept the distance. But when you share hours and hours with someone, when you truly loved someone whether it was platonic or romantic, when you truly knew each other, it will break you into pieces and it hurts when you realise that there was no way to make that person stay. But eventually, you will move on and so will the other person. You both will meet new people and create new memories. Of course, you will never forget each other when you were a huge part of each other's lives. When you experienced the highs and lows with someone, when you helped them when they needed it, when they were the reason you looked forward to waking up in the morning. When you two understand one another, it will hurt so much when you realise that you are slowly drifting away from them, and you don't know what to do, when you don't know that they want and what they feel. But you just want to live in the moment, you want to relive the past when you two were the happiest together, when you don’t want to look into the future. And you shouldn’t, you shouldn’t worry about something that you don’t know how to change, but you can live in the moment. It will be hard, but everything must come to an end. But you also need to recognise that your relationship with that person will never truly be gone, no matter how far you drift apart from them, no matter how hard you try to move on, which you will always end up doing, thought even then, you will never entirely forget them, you will always be apart of their life, and there’s no changing that. They will look back into their memories, think about you in the late nights as they stare at the roof. They will always think about you, they will always miss you even though the more you guys grow up, the less they will remember the times with you when you both were younger, on those late nights where they stare at the roof, thinking. Just remember, that this is life. Even though it might sound, and feel, cruel. You need to accept it. You need to accept the end of the era and the start of a new one, with new people and new experiences. There’s so much life to live, worrying about the past will never get you further, or happier. It will be hard, but it will be worth it in the end. It will be the best for you, and for them. It was meant to happen and you will need to accept that. Perhaps, the happy ending is moving on.