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today's my birthday but all my close friends forgot. I am upset because I remember all their birthdays and shower them in love and gifts, but they didn't remember mine. I had mentioned it all week and they forgot. They remember everyone else's birthday except for me. I mentioned that today was my birthday and they said "happy birthday" and changed the subject. is it wrong that I wanted a little attention? It's my birthday after all! I just wish that sometimes they would pay more attention to me, and I can't tell them that because I am terrified of conflict. What do I do?
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I'm so sorry hon. I wish you a happy birthday! Those aren't real friends. It's hard with friends. Real friends appreciate you. I wish you a happy birthday. I'm sorry about them. They have no respect for you. Well, I'm not sure if you should confront them. I mean, if they don't pay much attention to you, why should you care? You don't need them. You shouldn't have to remind them that it's your special day. As friends, they should already know. And if they forgot, they should've done more than just say that. I'm so sorry. I wish you a happy birthday.
ReplyI’m so sorry to hear that that happened to you. Coincidentally, one of the people in my life’s birthday is tomorrow (Technically today now), so I will think of you when we celebrate it. Sometimes people make honest mistakes and forget important things, but the fact that they didn’t acknowledge it even when you mentioned it shows that they perhaps are not the most thoughtful and attentive people. I don’t have much advice for dealing with this sort of thing, because I don’t have much experience. Maybe you could tell them that you felt sad about it? If they don’t react positively to communication and validate your perfectly acceptable feelings, then maybe they are not worth your time.
There will always be new people to meet, no matter how old you are, or where you live. Happy birthday, and I hope that you spend it in health and happiness. ❤️
ReplyWishing u a happy bday, love.
ReplyDear happy birthday to you🎂🍰! Try to enjoy your day. People totally ignored my b day too this year. It was bothersome but I got through it without those who ignored me too. Sending you happy birthday wishes!! ❤
ReplyHappy Birthday!!!❤
I know what you mean. I was the same way with my friends. Always making a big deal about their bday, getting them stuff. But they didn't do it for me. After years of that I was like screw it. I'm not going all out anymore. Now I just text them happy birthday like they do me. 🤷♀️
ReplyOMG MY FRIENDS DID THE EXACT SAME THING NONE OF THEM REMEMBERED MY BIRTHDAY. It genuinely sucked so ik how you felt. It made me feel more left out of the group. Anyways happy birthday
Replyhappy birthday to you too
ReplyDude. No one remembers my birthday either but idc anymore. I figure it's really not that important. Having friends really ain't that important either. When you're a loner, life gets much more simple.
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