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My father had a conversation with my cousin whose a registered nurse and had ben divorced twice. She was concerned I dont have a boyfriend even though I am 29( I have boyfriend they dont know that coz we are on Long distant relationship he and I been friends for 7 years and then after my grandparents death he comforted me and our feelings developed organically .. We both realized we have feelings for each other and legitimately want to be together in the long run but I had to keep it a secret coz my family want to test him if he truly loves me like most asian family. He has to met my family before he is allowed to date me..as sign of respect...elders. He and I are both family oriented so we both agreed. Papa said to cut communciation with my bf but he has to give him a chance when he visit he agreed ) Papa ask me if I should get a hair cut so i can have a bf he be happy? So i said " really? what if i did have a bf .. will you be happy? he said " Yes ofcourse but aslong as not a black man ( he knows i had a suitor who is black american Yes he is my bf ..his family knows about me and had a very positive feedback..totally opposite of mine....) i would dislike to have a dicussion with my parents..about my dating life.. coz they feel if i married a black american i would be seen as "desperate and i will have a low chance or remarrying no man will ever want me" .... i feel uncomfortable hearing those my own mom dont want to have black grandkids....i had to vent.. what should i do... how to make them understand my bf is a good person not in the typical movie villain.. wish they would give him a chance ..i adore and love him coz he is so kind and understanding but all they see now is his skin color..
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