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At first I met him and he changed my life. It was perfect that my parents were already very close friends with him and his family before we met. Since then, we've hung out at his house and all. We've then talked for months, but I had previously gotten out of a toxic relationship with a cheating ex. So therefore wasn't ready at that time for a relationship. But he was understanding and we proceeded to talk for months. I realized why I wasn't ready, not just cause I had gotten out of a toxic relationship, but cause I wasn't confident nor happy with myself. So the next time he had asked me if I was ready, I said "sorry I really need to focus on myself and my health". He understood and he never left my side. He was always with me during my darkest days and always cheered me up. Weeks later after working on myself, I said yes on January 6th 2021. He couldn't wipe a smile off his face and neither could I. He really did make me the happiest I've been. But I was also happy cause I worked and found myself, so don't just think your happiness is coming from someone cause "you are the reason for your happiness". I still remember every detail that went down the first day we had hung out together alone. It was magical. I got my first cuddle, hug and kiss. I had his cologne on my flannel and that night slept with that same flannel unwashed. I was devastated for that night to end. I really thought nothing was going to ever go wrong and that he was THE one. Our families always got along and loved to hang out, we only end up leaving at like 3 in the morning on weekends. He even has little sisters that they call me their best friend. My face lights up. His littlest one made me a bracelet when I went over on Valentine's day, it was the cutest. And the other younger sister of his, tells me everything and her life. We all hang out on the trampoline teaching each other some tricks. I love building bonds with someone siblings. His older sister even wants to be friends with me and she seems very fun to hang around regardless of all the "bad" choices she choses to do. She's still very kind and fun. Anyways, weeks go by of happiness and fun hangouts. I remember every detail of all the nights we've hung out and talked. He literally had my whole heart until, I got worried. We went from saying "Good morning" and "Goodnight" messages everyday to maybe saying it like once a month. We went from saying "I love you" like everyday to only me saying it and I get no reply. We went from sending each other hearts to not at all. That's when I started to overthink and panic. Obviously my first thought was "He lost feelings", which could be possible, but I don't want to believe it. I never asked anything so I just waited it out to see if things would go back to normal. But they didn't, I saw more things. A girl posted a tik tok where he, another girl and her brother were all hanging out dancing. He never told me he was going to hang out with others. So I cried and cried, when my sister messaged him after seeing that tik tok if we were still dating, he says "yes why", she said that it looks like your hanging out with other girls. He messages me worried and panicked explaining that he only hangs out with her brother cause they haven't seen each other in a while. He says he doesn't even like the girls that were there. He goes home mediately after. I calmed down and stopped thinking about it. My overthinking tho got worse as I saw that when our families hung out again, he wasn't talking to me, nor paying attention to me. It was like a big slap in the face cause his dad was forcing him to sit next to me. I wanted to cry but forgot about it since my parents were all having fun. I didn't want to make them feel obligated to go home earlier than expected. On my way home he randomly messaged me saying "Sorry that I didn't hug you or kiss you or anything. I felt pressured by the amount of people that were there tonight". I believed him cause you know anxiety and there were more people than expected so I again wasn't thinking much. But I had also, remembered that he had a full conversation with my sister while I was right beside her, yet still never said one word to me. But since then, I thought about everything a lot and wasn't my happiest. My parents were even realizing and most of the time I hide my emotions. But I couldn't. Not too long ago from now, my family went over again, but this time it was like a huge party with even more people including teenagers. So I knew that he may not talk to me or anything again which hurts. And as I was right, he never said a word to me or anything, I felt ignored. But this time that night he never apologized or mentioned it. So I just felt like I either lost him or I was just overthinking everything like I do. That night I just hung around with all the parents and we played a bunch of fun games to occupy my mind for a bit. By the amount of people there were and the thoughts in my head, my anxiety really showed and I was shaking A LOT during the games. My sister had even asked me a bunch of times privately if I was okay and I just replied with "yes". My mother later on that night had also asked me and asked me if I knew why my boy friend was ignoring me. I didn't know and was too afraid yo ask thinking it may lead into a bad direction of assuming or a conflict. Which I didn't want as it would just make things worse. So basically I don't want to assume or anything cause you never know of someone's situation but I just want to return to the old us.
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i don't know about him but its not the way to treat your girlfriend even if he apologizes u should ask explanation for his behavior...u deserve every happiness so don't let someone treat u that way
Replyhe cheated on me two months ago...
ReplyThe way he is treating you sounds like what a jerk would do. Sorry :(. Don't waste your time with him and anytime you have to be around him ignore the shit out of him. It will drive him crazy, and also maybe if there are other teens around go flirt with one . Guys do this stuff all the time even as you get older so you have to play the game back. Don't let him dull your sparkle.
ReplyHe cheated on me two months ago... life is fun..
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