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I have a guy I'm really interested in who is in the Army. I believe he's only national guard or something. He is everything I want from a guy. Smart, hella cute, tall, and the most patient honest kind guy i've ever had the pleasure of knowing. He is also Catholic however that's more for my parents peace of mind, religion isnt that important to me. I might as well be agnostic. But, this guy would throw himself into the fire for me, and has never been toxic, even as I've friendzoned him a lot, choosing other guys over him for years now. He has always helped me when I cried over leaving them, and supported me when I got with someone new. He has talked with me through my my own mental health blocks by giving me outlets on how to use them to my advantage. He has never demeaned me and honestly, treats me as a princess. He is always respectful as well. But, he doesn't want to be an officer, and wants quite a few kids, meanwhile i dont want that many kids if any at all. I wouldn't be bothered by this so much because honestly, he feels like home. But I dont know where to start and how to handle it all. I intend to get a doctorate to practice law and one day might even want to be a judge. I dont want to move around a lot. Can I get some advice please?
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Personally, I see your lifestyles as incompatible, and I sense no spark; the data supports the interest, but it feels transactional in the analysis. If you are serious about him, discussions need to start right away as to what you both would want and what aspects of life take priority. Can it work? Absolutely, but please be very careful; I forsee potentially high possibilities of heartache in the relationship. In conclusion, my recommendation is to not pursue this relationship, but if you choose to, be unshakably certain to make one another a priority.
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