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Is this wrong?

1 year ago · 2 · Stress, +4


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I'm in a long distance relationship (I've been in one for a year and some months) and I have a habit and I'm not sure if it's wrong. Whenever someone is near me whether it's in person or in the car whenever I pass someone (specifically males but also females) I try to look presentable? Like I try to look "cute" in a way and I'm not sure if it's wrong. I'd never talk to them or anything like that. I just don't like people thinking I'm ugly but it feels wrong at the same time. I cheated on my boyfriend last year online like sending pictures. He knows and I told him last year and he forgave me and he trusts me again and we've just been working on our relationship ever since. I just don't know if it's wrong to I guess "fix" and look more presentable. Maybe it's just anxiety or me overthinking. I don't know but I'd never want to do anything wrong I'm just envious and vain sometimes.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    Hmm... well, it's good to be presentable in front of people. I personally try my best to not cause attention to myself. You got a boy, you love him. It's relatable and common for people to want to be presentable. I mean, just try not to look for attention. Your goal is to make your boy trust you.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    That is complete opposite of me. Aince I'm in a relationship I detest guys looking at me and I kind of always show a mean face or make myself look mean....

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