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there's "this girl" I've known since freshmen year of high school. I'm currently a senior and this girl..... is like my real first love. we dated freshmen and sophomore year. I'm crazy about her. she gives me this weird feeling in my stomach, that I've never felt with any of the other girls I've been with. she's drop dead gorgeous, and she knows she is. which makes her that much prettier. she's literally the sweetest person I've met in my entire life. like i said I'm bonkers about this woman. but the problem is, after we broke up we never got back together, and now i have somebody new in my life. and a couple of months ago me and "this girl" started talking again and i think I'm falling in love with her. even though i have a girlfriend. i want to forget 'this girl" and not talk to her until who knows when... but i don't wanna let go of her because she's beautiful as an angel, and i wouldn't want any other man to be with her. and that sounds kind of selfish but that's how i really feel. i want to love this girl make her mine forever... and if i cant i guess ill just have to be alone. but right now i have a girl. and i wouldn't like to be dishonest in any way to her. i currently live far away from "this girl" and my girlfriend as well. so its long distance. ive never been a fan of long distance but i know my girl loves me like hell so. i gotta do it for her. i have alot of people i love in my life that i dont want to let go. but i guess i have to. please feel free to make a question or comment on what i should do
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Questions to ponder.
About the first girl.
Are you in love or in lust with the first girl?
You yourself said she was "drop-dead gorgeous", "as beautiful as an angel" "didnt want anyone else to be with her".
Does this have her best well being in mind or yours?
What else do you like about her? Shes sweet(kind?)?
Why did you break up? Was it something you did, or something she did? A school thing, maybe she moved away for college?
Can this thing be fixed? Can talking it through with her fix it.
Is she talking to you, or are you talking to her?
Is she simply being nice(sweet) and social or is she flirting?
If it is simply a response to you saying hi, then I would ask the hard questions after thinking about the following.
About the current girl:
Are you in the "relationship" just to be in a "relationship" or are you in love with the girl you are with?
What is it that defines this relationship?
How did you meet?
I ask all these questions only as thoughts, i mean nothing by them and am in no way implying either relationship can go either way.
I have had my fair share of doubt and temptations.
I have ended relationships horribly only to discover the issue was me not the other person.
I was to blinded by my own selfishness to see what my s.o. wanted/needed.
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