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Hi, sooo
i had this thing with a girl. we weren't something official cause we knew we had to end it pretty soon but my time with her was amazing. we clicked in so many ways and when we had to end it we left it on good terms and are trying to just be friends for and keep in touch cause we meant a lot to each other. now she is away back to her old life and there is distance so its hard to keep in touch. feels like shes gone colder or lost her empathy for me. I knew things would change but i never thought shed be this cold. My time with her was the most amazing relationship ive ever had even tho it wasnt "official" the amount of mutual care, appreciation, intimacy, love and just happiness that time brought me is still the best thing that has happened to me. I still have the photos from before, cards, little details and reminders we gave each other of special datenights, events and such. Something her family said and my family and friends said it without hearing it from anyone else before (everyone said the same without hearing it from each other, weirdly coincidential) was that "if its meant to be, it will be. maybe its not the time yet and you'll find each other again"
I know i have to move on from what happened and sometimes i look at those things with a lot of pride and happiness knowing it happened and sometimes i look at them and get nostalgic and get stuck in the "what ifs" if never ended, or what happened or has changed that we feel so distant and almost like strangers now.
I cherish my memories with her a lot and i know i still love her. probably always will and im ok with it. but should i keep this reminders or get rid of them? are they holding me back from letting go or keeping that hope alive just like what everyone said when it ended?
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