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A second chance?
1 week ago · · Need Advice,
It's been a little over a week since I had broke up with him.
You decided to message me a long passage apologising for the way you acted when we broke up and things in general too I guess. You said you still care for me and hope that I'm doing well.
I took two days to reply. Not because I was avoiding him but because I had no idea how to respond and what to really say. I ended up replying back saying that it's okay and that everything that was said and done is all in the past now. I told him I still care for him too and hope that we can still be friends.
He asked me, ''do you think we could get back together''. I said maybe but I don't really know. He wrote me a whole text telling me how he felt. How much he misses me and how things could be if we took another shot.
He said that ever since the breakup, it made him realise everything. I guess everything that went wrong and what could of been done and said instead.
Judging by what he has said, it sounds like he really has come to a realisation about everything, about our relationship. And that he really does want to get back together with high hopes that it will be better this time and that he'll change for the better.
Part of me is telling myself that made a second chance won't hurt and maybe things will actually be better. And that my initial hope that this relationship will last long and that it will be great, can be fulfilled.
What's stopping me from getting back together with him?
I know I shouldn't let this influence me, but a lot of it is my friends and family. None of them liked the fact I was dating him and a lot of them had negative views upon him. The other part is that I'm scared I'll be wrong. I'm scared I'll make the wrong move and end up hurt again.
But to hear how much he really wants this and to see how much he's 'learnt' or realised, makes me think maybe he will be good to me. And that maybe I'll really be happy in this relationship than I was previously.
I'm so unsure at the moment. I do miss him too.