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It certainly is uncomfortable at first (dating a secure attachment)
1 week ago · · dating,
I am in that period we discussed about changing learning about your attachment style and how to develop a more secure one for the future. I am learning more and more about the part of me that wants to withdraw and push away once we get close or as close for two people who are dating.
I was forewarned that at first it will feel really uncomfortable and even unsettling but you have to push through it. I have battled that part of me that wants to PUSH her away and it has been a war.
anyone who goes through this stage in the dating game I wish you the best. When you make these adjustments to your attachment style and try to date and perhaps secure a relationship with someone who is secure in theirs.....it will take a while and a lot of overthinking and anxiety that you will work through. Remind yourself you are always worthy of something higher something fruitful.
things I am grateful for
1. Warm weather
2. Cold showers
3.Lemongrass tea (made by myself)