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I don't understand my mother!!!
4 days ago · · mother,
My Mother stays in India and I am in USA. Its been 5 year my mother has never called me. She is not highly educated so it took sometime for her to learn whatsapp and how to make calls. I used to call initially and after few years I realized it's been one way with all my family. I text my Dad everyday and we speak over text for2 mins just normal Hi how are you. But with my mother I did not see any efforts. Till now she is usually near her phone and is in contact with my aunt and other people from her side of the family. She always has complains about my dad's side of the family. My mother has never called me and she texts me once a month when she needs gossip. never asks How I am. Growing up she was very very strict and she use to beat me if I don't act like she expected. Also we were well off but she never hired a maid. I used to take care of certain chores and then i will get some respect in the family. I visited once a year in past 5 years and she is not happy when I am visiting. She still expects that I cook for everyone when I am visiting and take care of some work which I dont want to do when I am visiting for 15 days and using all my vacation days to visit them. I want to rest during my vacation. I dont mind helping but she expects more than help, and now after I moved here she has two servants to help her. She also belittle me based on my look and height. She is very controlling even though she is far away. She tells me how to behave, whom should i call, what should i say, makes me delete my comments or photos on facebook. She shows her love for me off on social media but she hasnt been loving caring affectionate or nice to me ever.