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3 days ago · 11 · Stress, +2
Does anyone think you can still love someone after cheating them?
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You would have to ask yourself why you have cheated on them first.
Honestly I think the idea of „cheating“ is pretty stupid, because it would mean that we are owned by one another. I am all for opened realationship, but not everyone is like that
That’s true. You know sometimes circumstances make you do stupid things. We all are different.
It's a choice and a selfish act to cheat.
The person to cheat wasn't considerate enough of the other individual, and how it would negatively impact or hurt them. Not only does the betrayal hurt, but has ultimately broken the trust within the relationship/marriage etc..
Is love suppose to be selfish, generally no.
There's many definitions of what love is, but cheating isn't one of them and never the answer to fixing problems.
How can one proclaim love to the person they're committed in a monogamous relationship, and then say the same to another after in the same way.
You can love different people but to cheat in a monogamous relationship isn't fair on the other person. Especially, if this is a commitment which was agreed upon by both parties, within the relationship to be monogamous.
Unless, you're into open relationships, make it clear to your partner that this is what is wanted and make sure they agreed with it too. Both should be on the same page and respecting each others views. This does not apply to self-love and self- respect, in the sense that it isn't self-centred that leads to cheating.
Someone who's considerate of their other half, would be clear of what they want within the relationship or marriage with their partner.
It's important to open up and speak to your significant other about how you feel, your needs and issues within the relationship that would need to be worked on. It has to be equally reciprocated and comfortable for both without being disrespectful.
If none of it was done then how can you expect your partner to be made aware?
It shows a level of maturity to end the relationship on a good note, without having to cheat and jumping to the next one to fill in the gaps.
Break ups, divorces and the end of all relationship hurt and never are easy.
Why make it worst by cheating?
There's the possibility to still care about the person you onced loved. However, to still love someone after cheating on them, i won't call it love but again it depends on your definition of love.
how can you cheat on someone when your not with them anymore? My ex boyfriend stopped talking to me because he thought i was cheating on him after we broke up. Every since i fell in love with him i don't want to like or date anyone but the heart is so annoying. when you been in love 2 times already my heart is broken i can't move on or be in a relationship
sorry for typing this on ur post but it's been 2-3 years since i loved the same guy i started loving someone else but they left me for another girl which was already his girlfriend.
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To be honest as much as I hate cheating and it fills me with like disgust I guess. My boyfriend once cheated on me, it was a horrible experience but he was young and foolish and curious and hadn't been with anyone other than me. He loved me so much and he still does and I would never doubt that. People make mistakes sometimes and cheating is a big one. The trust is very hard to get back, they'll constantly be on guard but it they forgive you and you never do it again then obviously you both love each other very much.
For me and my boyfriend we have now been together 6 years. He cheated on me about 2 years in. Even now I sometimes worry about him cheating, I still sometimes bring it up to him and ask why he did it and his answer is always the same "I was stupid". I believe he'd never cheat on me again but I want you to know it will be hard for you and the person you cheated on. They might make you're relationship a living hell for a while because they just can't trust you.
Cheating is generally about selfishness... which... if you truly love someone you will not allow your selfishness to hurt the one you love. Generally it takes years of maturity to truly understand love and sacrifice.. and some people never do their entire life. If the act of cheating was confessed and forgiveness was given then it is possible that love still exists. Romantic love - extremely conditional.
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yes on can love them after cheating
No, if you loved them you wouldn't have cheated on them in the first place.
Well that’s called generalization.
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