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Please help me. Advice.

1 year ago · 2 · Need advise


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I met a guy on a website. Lets call him J. We had a chat and I felt very comfortable with him. He has told me to reach out via social media, as I did not give out my ID, but he did give his ID. I searched him and I am missing him now. I feel to just tell him, that I might like him.

However, I am in a relationship already, with my best friend. I don't know if I should connect with J then. Would it be betrayal if I connect with J? I have tried to hold back from connecting him since past 2 days, but I am longing for him.

I don't know what should I do. Please let me know.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    You must always be truthful to yourself and to others. Tell your bestfriend how you met this person. Talk to the person you were contacting, as a friend. Don't take any leaps until you're sure. But don't hurt others trying to have security.

    Guilt only happens when you hide something.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    You should talk to J and see if you can get a feel for where he stands with you. Don't do anything you'll regret just communicate and get some understanding of whether or not he would even respond to your feelings. Such perspective could help you to see the whole situation more clearly.

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