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I think it’s reasonable If I tell a guy from the internet I want to get to know him for a week or two before meeting him. But I think every time I tell a guy this they just start ghosting. I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong..
And while chatting I shouldn’t be the first to come and say hi every time. I’m telling you this because 10 days ago a guy said he was looking for serious relationship. He started asking serious questions. And we agree on one points. Again I said I’d like to get to know him a bit more before meeting him and he said ok he respects that. But the day after, he started to be.. I don’t know like the other guys! Barely talking. Giving me short answers and not showing much emotion when I sent him some of my favorite songs and asked him to send me some of his.
So I sent him a voice and told him I don’t like it when people start to ghost, it’s not polite and if you’re not interested just say so.
And he answered me with a text: no I am interested but meeting in person is real important to me and I think we have said all that could be said with texting. I reply that we could have a video chat. And he doesn’t say he agrees or what and again says it’s important to meet. And I’m like what do we do now until we meet, be silent? Also I said I think you could know the person with text in from other aspects. So I told him the truth that we can’t meet until the end of the week because my schedule is tight this week. Now we’re not talking after two days. And I check and he’s still active on the app.
I don’t know he seems decent but I’m not sure if I’m not going to meet some creep. And I’m not a pro at feeling a situation. He seems like the type who really likes to discuss things and not only personal but also politics and religion (I mentioned once or twice when he started a discussion that it’s not easy to discuss something with texting and we should wait for now). And I’ve had enough of this kind of discussions and want to loosen up a bit. My last text to him is I sent him some comedy video and said he could send me some of the things he likes and he said “thank you and sure I’ll send some”. Now two days later he hasn’t texted me back.
I don’t have anyone who could give me good advice as would appreciate if here someone could give me one.
Thanks
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You should know that when it comes to women men think with their dicks. You are right in trying to get to know him a bit before meeting him but this doesn't guarantee your safety. If you meet him he could try to get you into bed almost straight away and turn nasty when you refuse. If this was me I would keep right away from him. He sounds weird especially as he can't wait a week. Keep away from him and meet someone else who has the time to text first. Always meet in a crowded place and be careful.
ReplyAt this point I think I only attract creepy men! And then what? there’s nobody left! It’s been months and I can’t find anyone.
ReplyFind someone who respects your wishes. I would want longer than a week or two, so I don't think your request is unreasonable. Please just make sure if you do go meeting strangers, make it in a public place around lots of people, or bring a friend or 2. Be careful.
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