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Srsly, all of my friends, they only text me to vent out, share their problems and some asking for advice.
But this one guy, is an exception.
He only shares his happy news, achievements, his hobbies and nothing about problems.
I always love to communicate with him and i do get excited everytime i saw his texts. I can't help but to smile while reading and replying the texts and our conversation is my bedtime story. I mean, i read all of them everyday before i sleep. Strangely, i never get bored although im reading the very same conversation everyday.
Last week, he didn't send me texts. And at that moment, i told myself to not engaging with him for a while. I just want to see how are my feelings were...
And..
Only God knows how much I miss him. I miss him so much that my heart aches. I got worried, anxious, i can't stop thinking about him. I even cried on my bed. I prayed for him too.
So, am i in love? Is it normal to have this kind of feeling between friends? Tbh i never ever felt like this before :(
Im confused
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Well it certainly appears that you care deeply about what he shares but I'd strongly hesitate to call it love. Do you see him in person at all?
Bear in mind that it's perfectly ok to have those texts and everything, but missing that communication let's you know that you're missing the positive nature, not him specifically.
ReplyI was in this situation too or rather am...and idk whether its love or not...but if this person keeps you happy ...keep him...dont let him go like i did...its sure u r developing a crush on him and idk what future hold for you ...but truly wishing u best.
ReplyI don't think this is love you have for him. I think this is love that you could be giving to yourself but you don't know how. Like not knowing how to dribble a basketball. With practice you can learn to do it like second nature. And then you'll text just like he does without even thinking about it. I promise.
ReplyYou obviously care for this boy and while you enjoy his presence and miss him when he's gone, I do not think it's love.
Love is more than just the positive stories and good news. With love you share all emotions even the ones that are hard to admit. The struggles and pain is part of love, so I think it's more of a deeply appreciated relationship.
Though if he means a lot to you reach out to him. Make sure he is doing okay, and if it turns out to be one sided then just leave because that pain is not worth it.
Just make it known that you care for him and you enjoy having him in your life.
I hope all goes well <3
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