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I'm going to my friend's house today for a sleepover and we're also going to one of her family friend's house too. they have a swimming pool but I really don't want to swim or be in a swimsuit at some random persons house. I've never met these people and she said that someone's brother was gonna be there too. I hate being around men. Especially when I'm in a swimsuit 😐 it doesn't even matter if I know them or if I like them. It just makes me unbearably uncomfortable.
she rlly wants me to swim with her and I wanna swim too just... not there. I don't want to disappoint her. I also don't have a swimsuit I'm comfortable in because they all show too much but I dont have time to find any that are less showy. I showed her and one of my other friends and they both said they looked good on me but I think its too much... I actually don't think they're that bad on someone else, it might just be my sorta modest (Im not modest I'm just insecure 🤡) preference.....
sigh
What do I do..? :(
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Hello! My first instinct is to simply say that if you don't like being in a swimsuit, don't wear it. I personally rarely wear swimsuits because I just prefer to have a T-shirt and some leggings/tights. For me this is more of a modesty reason - I kind of feel naked in swimsuits especially when other people are there. Some people might look at you like that not normal, but again wearing a swimsuit is not a requirement to swim at all. If anyone asks, you can just say that you prefer the outfit you have on rather than a swimsuit.
As far as being insecure, I want you to realize that everyone thinks that there is something wrong with them or something they are insecure about. Even the most "prettiest" person...same way, there is always at least 1 thing that everyone can be proud about themselves. Please don't feel insecure about yourself or your body. It's perfectly natural to not want to wear something revealing because of insecurity about body or anything else. You are perfect the way you are. Try to relax and have fun no matter what you are doing or how you are doing it. Have a great swim!
ReplyThis is good advice!
ReplyPersonally, I don't like swimming in front of others either and I'm a guy... I've got man boobs... guys are expected to swim shirtless...
So I can empathize with you on this. I also have showing off my legs, I don't know why or what causes it but I just hate it. I'd rather just swim in normal attire.
And to be fair, most swimsuits out there are just as revealing as regular underwear. So I think it's natural for you to feel exposed. I'll never understand why people think it's perfectly normal to wear most of those things but shutter at the thought of being seen in their underwear. It's pretty much the same dang thing!
ReplyI feel the same way in a swimsuit, like I feel like every guy is objectifying me when I wear one. it really sucks :( but what I do is wear my towel around my waist until when im just about to get in the pool. but you could also wear swim shorts or just normal shorts to make you feel more comfortable. and maybe just explain to your friend that you're not super comfortable swimming and she'll probably understand.
Replyi feel the same way 😕
easy tip btw
just wear a T-SHIRT and shorts!
they are comfortable
and they look kinda cute :)
it dosent feel naked!
i hope this helps you from not feeling that again!
thank you..
#kiaaze
( i dont have user name so thats my lil thing lol)
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