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How do I become prettier
I've tried so many things yet when I looks at myself I don't see any. I know I have a low self esteem. How do I get rid of it? How do I feel confident? This constant reminder in my head keeps me from uploading to social media, going outside, talking to others. I'm in constant fear that people will think I'm ugly. People compliment me and tell me I'm pretty but it feels fake. I don't believe it. The person I see in the mirror is not the same they see. To me I'm hideous in need of fixing. In need of surgery. In need of magic. Something to make myself look prettier. I hate so many things about myself. I just want to feel happy about how I look for once. I'm so insecure and each day it just keeps growing. I see so many beautiful girls on social media and wish I'd look like that.
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First off everyone is pretty in their own way! In my personal opinion the things that makes people ugly is if they have a nasty personality! Try to start every day looking at the positives Are you healthy? able to walk? move without pain? Also start off everyday with damn I'm beautiful say it enough and eventually you will start believing it. Sending a virtual hug friend <3
ReplyConfidence, my dear. Confidence is how you become "prettier". Physical appearance fade with the years, a good soul is forever.
Something that stands true is most people don't honestly care about what you look like. They just want to get on with their lives with as little hassle as possible. That's all the vast majority care about.
So I might recommend trying to accept those parts of you that you see as flaws. Spend a few minutes in front of the mirror and say out loud "I don't look that bad". Do this for a few weeks.
Then, after you've had some time start saying "I look ok". Remember you're verbally saying this out loud while you look at your own reflection. Give this a few weeks.
Then start saying "I look good". You see, we're slowly changing how you think about yourself. We're not going full force and just flipping the script. Take the time to build up to that.
Along the way, find clothing that you feel brightens you up. Like a nice shade of purple, blue, or pink. Whatever color works well with your eye color or hair color. You can use this as a reward for your efforts in loving yourself. Finding things that compliment your appearance can assist in your journey to feel better about how you look.
Above all, as I always say, this is just practice. If you find yourself beating yourself up about your body, that's ok. It doesn't mean you give up, keep going and keep practicing.
ReplyIf somebody don't accept you as you are then you don't need them. You're beautiful ok. Keep being you.
ReplyAt the end of the day you are stuck with yourself for your entire life. Why spend so much time worrying about your looks? Most people truly don't care about appearance because they are too busy worrying about themselves.
Confidence is key my friend. It will take a while but you have to learn to truly love yourself. You can start by naming things you love about yourself and it doesn't have to be physical traits.
I also challenge you to post on social media. Clothing can be a huge confidence booster. Find something you love and post a pic with it on Insta.
Wishing you the best! :)
ReplySis, fake it till you make it.
ReplyA real easy way to make anyone look prettier is a smile. They look attractive on anyone.
ReplyI feel when you compare yourself with others, the people on social media, you are meant to get insecure about yourself. Insecurity only arises when you start comparing. Love yourself, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that "Im the prettiest". Do it once, say it loud. Stop comparing, start loving yourself for the way you are. Stop trying to make yourself like the people who you see on social media. Be your own person. Start making yourself happy by doing things that you like and not what other people expect you to like. It works.
Replyhi, if you want to meet your genetic potential, you can try this thing called 'mewing'. Its basically a technique (done naturally) to gain facial aesthetics, good posture and right breathing. You basically just have to correct the posture of your tongue which in turn will give definition your face. You can google it, theres tons of videos on it. However, I'll share a few links with which you can get started.
1. COMPLETE GUIDE on How to Mew (Perfect your Tongue Posture!) (https://youtu.be/xHfVj9rbhM0)
2. 9 Facial Features Affected by Mewing (How Tongue Posture Affects Face Shape) (https://youtu.be/GeyNrgpSCeY)
3. Mewing for Beginners Pt. 1 (How Tongue Posture Works) (https://youtu.be/WphZD3Mr2RU)
4. 100 Mewing Before and After Photos (https://youtu.be/ujQeHHrmhQk)
5. 2 Years of Mewing CHANGED MY FACE (https://youtu.be/SCtUAQc7mZE)
Hope it helps ;)
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