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Have you ever said I love you to someone and meant it in every way possible? Do you understand what is love?
What is love?
Love is everything, it is a promise, it is hope, it is trust, but the biggest of all it is a sacrifice. Love is never selfish, and it is very selfless. But we are very selfish people, and we love someone and expect the same in return. True love is about giving everything and being happy receiving nothing in return. Love is about a deep connection with the soul of the person.
Are there different forms of love?
Yes and no, well love has no boundaries, yes but it does have layers. Every love and relationship has some layers to it. The love that our parents are no different from the way we love our girlfriend or boyfriend, except for few layers. Depending on each relationship, the layers change. For a girlfriend or a boyfriend, there will be additional layers of romanticism, intimacy, etc.
Let us explore what love means when you have a girlfriend.
Have her in every thought.
What is the first thought that comes to you when doing anything, visit any place, eat anything new. When you see a beautiful sight, and the thought is that she would have loved this, I want to come here with her. You pick up the phone, call her to show her the view, send pictures to her. When you eat something that is amazing, and you want to enjoy the dish with her. When someone tells you something, and your mind brings her in every thought, then that is love.
Love is doing things that will her comfortable.
Love is about giving her comfort in every way. When you are travelling in a cab, giving your hand so that she can rest her head. It is about knowing when she is hungry before she tells you. Love is being on the phone, when she wants to study and teaches you medical, despite you having no interest in it, and enjoying every bit of it.
Treating her like a baby.
Love is knowing that you are both adults yet treating her like a small baby who just needs love and pampering. It is about brushing her teeth and washing her hair.
Love is about trusting her.
Love is about trusting her without any doubt. There should be no question of trust and maintaining that yourself. There are going to be many girls you may come across, but the one that you have your heart, mind, and soul on should be only one. It is about actions that you do while she might not be ever aware of, but you do only those that she would approve of.
Love is about the experience.
When you want to make the experience with her so memorable, you do everything. When it rains, and the pavement is wet, it is about holding her heels so that she can walk comfortably. It is about doing things differently so that each moment is an experience she will remember.
When you see everything for her.
When I come across any shop selling any accessories, any apparel, any jewelry, or anything goods related to her, the first thing I think about is how this would look on her. I want to purchase that item, share the pics with her.
Celebrating every achievement.
Love is celebrating her every achievement. The first day she gets paid, the first day she goes to work. Love is about guiding her to what is best for her career and allowing her to choose her career over you every single moment. Love is about knowing that she wants to talk to you, but she needs to study and letting her study while checking on her every hour.
Love every aspect of her.
Love is not liking few aspects of a person. It is about falling in love with the entire soul of the person so that every perfection and any imperfection of that person is something that you are so fond of. I remember when we used to talk late in the night, and she would sleep on the call within 5 minutes, and it gave me comfort knowing that she used to find so much comfort in talking to me, that she could just sleep calmly.
Knowing every detail.
Love is really knowing her thought process. You must respect every decision of her, irrespective of what. It is about knowing what actions will make her upset, and angry. It is about knowing how she best takes time to heal back and giving her space. Love is about knowing her choices, what she likes, what she prefers, and what is her choice. When you visit a restaurant, knowing what she will like. When you buy some clothes for her, knowing what will look good on her.
Making every moment special.
All lovers say that they can get the moon for their love, but love is about knowing that you cannot, and making her feel like a princess in every moment. Love is about gifting those little, little items, that will make her smile when she sees them. It is really about those small gifts, that might not cost a lot, but shows the effort you are ready to take for her to make her feel special.
Interconnectedness
Love is waking her up when she wants to and waking up to wake her. Love is about ringing her phone, when she is miles thinking about you and when you ring you hear – I was thinking of you.
Choosing what to remember
No relationship is perfect, there are going to be numerous challenges, and disagreements, and fights. Is your love more important or your ego and choosing to forget all those times when things were not good is a conscious choice. When you look back, all you should see is love and just so deep love and a beautiful person.
Her happiness should be your happiness.
Love is when your happiness lies in her happiness. When every teardrop from her eyes breaks you apart and when you would do everything to remove all her pain. Love is finding so much peace in knowing that she is happy, even when she is not without you.
All your prayers are for her.
When you stand in front of God, and you pray for something, your prayers are only for her happiness, even If she does not involve you. It is about praying to God to make her all her pains yours and give her all her happiness.
Have no expectations.
Though we are humans, and we seek reciprocal expectations. Love is when you want to give everything you have, and you can and be happy if you do not get anything in return. Love is about texting wishing good morning, good night, and saying I love you every day even if you do not get any reply on this.
Love is about loving her when she does not.
Love is really about respecting her decisions and knowing that she might not talk to you ever now, but yet wishing success, wishing her happiness in every way. Love is about wanting to do things for her all your life, even if you do not get to see her ever in your life. Life is about devoting your purpose to her happiness in every way possible.
Love is about meaning every promise.
During every course of relationships, we all do make promises. Love is about believing in those promises and living every bit of it, even when if the person you made those promises is to be gone forever. When you said that I will love you forever, you mean it all your life no matter how difficult it is, how lonely it is. It is about not disturbing her life when she does not want to yet love her the way you promised to.
Love is about praying for someone who is with her.
Love is really about praying for her new partner because he is going to be with her. Love is about praying that she gets so much love, that she never has to think about her past. Love is just wishing that she gets everything and much more than she has ever got in the past.
Love is wanting to end your life but not doing it because it will affect her.
Love is all about her and will always be for her. Even if you want to end your life, and escape the pain you are in, you cannot, because it would affect her. Love is about enduring all the pain, and just wishing her all happiness, irrespective of everything.
Love is a very serious affair; love is one of the toughest feelings you can have for someone. The next time, you say I love you to anyone, think hundred times before saying those three magical words. Break everything, but never a girl’s heart, it is one of the most tender things that exist.
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