What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
For years I have been thinking about immigrating to an other country. My sister lives in an other country now, but I have felt she’s not happy. I have always lived with my family which I love. I think it’ll be too hard for me to live alone. But it’s been years since I’m stuck in kind of a standstill and sometimes I think I might end up killing myself. I feel like the right thing is to move on and build something else for myself. So that’s how now I’m thinking about applying, but I don’t know if I’m strong enough to do it. I don’t know if I can coupe with loneliness, if I’ll be safe living alone.. I’m not one of those characters who can predict and prepare.
But on the other hand I have chosen a country which I’ve been fascinated with since childhood. I love the weather, the accent, the culture.. and because of it I have always been out of place compared to every one else.
But then again when I think about studying again, I’m not sure if I’m strong enough. I have never been good at studying.. My bachelor I studied something that I had no feelings towards at the beginning and ended up hating it after six years of trying to just pass the courses! Since then I just feel I have depleted little strength I had for life and still it hasn’t been replenished yet! I’m 31 now and I still have nightmares about being stuck in those days!
But on the other hand I feel like if I know what’s good for me, I’d take the opportunity and do something about it before it’s too late to not regret it in the future.
On the other hand, my sister who can help me with the applying process is someone who is really difficult to get along with. I dread asking for her help. We’re at a point that when I talk to her I just want to use a hammer and a translator, then maybe we could understand each other!
I’d appreciate it if someone here with a close experience could give me some advice, insight and tell me if with such emotional obstacles, can I do the right thing for myself and try doing this? Or there are too many things I haven’t considered deciding to immigrate..
If you leave a comment, would you please check this page again incase I have answered your comment? Thanks 🙏🏻
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
More Posts
-
a friend
what i want more than anything is just to have a friend, just at least one friend who actually feels like a friend. i'm so lonely all the time--i never used to...
-
Adult life
Being a teenager having to take care of my sister, cooking for my family, cleaning the house, and so on, has made me realize I dont want to get married or have...
I can’t give you much advice but, hang in there! I really truly believe you can do it. Do what you want. Enjoy while you can and follow your dreams. I want you to be happy.
ReplyIf you immigrate, are you ready to be homeless? I would use that as a basis and figure how to build from there. If you know you wont be homeless, then build from whatever position you'll be in. idk just my thoughts. I hope it works out for you
ReplyNo, I’m applying as a student, so it’s important to secure a residence.
Reply