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I'm 17 years old, I was questioning my sexuality in May for some odd reason. No I don't message any girls, I don't know any (schools got a few - 3). It's been a year since covid and in may, I started questioning my sexuality on and off. Then at the end of June, I started questioning my sexuality again, and this time constantly, to the point where I got subtle anxiety. I've always been attracted to women, deeply, until now. Just recently, I was invited to some party randomly. I drank a lot (enough to make me tipsy, not drunk) and met a few girls (which I kissed) (not heavy make out, just a kiss). This being my first kiss, I thought later that I would regret this in the morning. Now since that day, I haven't felt the same. My attraction to women Is being dished onto by anxiety and I feel this consistent pain in my heart. I've never been attracted to men, just a bunch of gay jokes here and there with friends that's it. This past year has just been memes and school, nothing else. I don't know if I'm attracted to men or to women, but I do know that a woman's body does get me heavily aroused, but that connection that I used to feel, that desire to be with a girl forever, has gone, or is masked by a false sense of anxiety. I have no idea what to do.
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You just haven't found the right girl, yet. It's okay. You are straight.
ReplyI disagree with the comment above. Its 2021, not everyone has to be straight. Also I'm gonna guess you're a guy..?
Sexuality is confusing. You'll figure things out eventually even though it might seem like you're getting no where atm. It could be a slow process but still. Just experiment, be honest with your feelings and don't judge yourself. It's fine to be bi or gay or pan or whatever. You might need time to accept it but it's okay. Some people just assume they're straight because they've never considered having options. You don't even have to label yourself at all if you don't want to or if you're having trouble doing so. Sexuality is fluid and it can change throughout a person's life. Just do whatever feels right <33
ReplyYou're right; not everyone has to be straight, but not everyone has to be or is gay. Thank you very much.
ReplyI wanna say that you can be sexually attracted to women and not romantically attracted to them. you can be romantically attracted to men but not sexually or both or whichever. you don't need to label yourself. you got this. also don't let people give you labels lol. people are dumb and ignorant and will use young confused kids to force their beliefs on. which is better? a person telling you are definitely straight. or a person telling you you can be whatever you want? good luck and take it easy on yourself.
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