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so, in my friend group, one of my friends is dating someone she met online and the other is almost dating two guys she knows irl. i dont have anything against meeting ppl online, ive been in online relationships, but whats rubbing me the wrong way is that friend number 1’s bf is 17, and so is the guy #2 is talking to. Now, since they r both 15, this sort of worries me, idk the exact age laws and stuff but like… these guys will be 18 when they r still 15. If it isn’t illegal, it should be. i just feel like maybe don’t date a guy who could adopt you in a few months?? they also do drugs and shit. I personally don’t get any of what they r feeling cause im lesbian, but like is it a normal age gap? Like is 2.5 years at this age legal even? I don’t care abt older wage gaps, like once ur over the age of 20 go date whoever u want unless they r a minor, but like with age gaps its more a matter of maturity levels. these guys r doing hard drugs and i already spend most nights talking #1s bf out of getting high, i dont rlly want two negative influences on my friends. is it wrong for me to feel this protective or am i just jealous? i did used to have a crush on 1 and 2 but thats old and over.
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Legality for this sort of thing is mostly dependent on where you live. That being said, I think you're concerns are valid. These guys don't sound like the most trustworthy people from the way you describe them, and even though 15 and 18 sound close in age, the mindsets and maturity is completely different. A lot of times in these situations, the younger party is excited and validated by the attention they are getting from an older person, and often are easily manipulated. I do think you should bring this up to your friends, and try to explain this and make sure they understand you're coming from the perspective of a concerned friend. I also think you should consider informing a trusted adult, especially if things take a turn for the worse. I hope this helps, and I hope you are able to resolve this. You are a good friend for noticing this and being concerned about it.
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