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loooong story short...When I was younger I was in a extremely abusive relationship where I was basically raped every day. Fast forward to now and im with the love of my life, not afraid of having sex and having a blast. Well, I had his baby and I tore. So the area is painful still. He likes his 1 minute quickies so I never have time to prepare down there if yknow what I mean. So it hurts. I'm having trauma responses to it and he's getting pissed because I don't want to have sex and is pressuring me every day and making me feel guilty. I have no clue what to do about it...but at least we're talking lol.
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I'm so sorry you had to go through an abusive relationship and you're so brave for talking about it and not letting it stop you from having a relationship. However, if your new partner is not on board or does not understand that it is physically hurting you, maybe think about it, think if this is the relationship that you really want. Try talking to him a different way, try explaining why it hurts, tell him that you need time to heal.
Wishing you the best!
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