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i think my brother sexually abused me when were kids.
2 years ago · 3 · sexual abuse, +4 · Explicit
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Trigger warning for anyone sensitive to topics related to sexual abuse.
i forgot about this for a long time but i think last month i remembered it finally.
when me and my brother were kids (he's 5 years older then me, and i think i was 6? or so, everything's fussy around there) we would touch each other, we made sure are parents never knew, one day i remember i think 1 or 2 years after we stopped doing this i asked him about it and he acted like it never happened, (something he would do then if he didn't want to admit to doing whatever) he denied ever doing such a thing and when i kept annoying him to do it i think he put a game on his computer to distract us from everything. (or maybe he kicked me out of his room? again everything is very fussy around there)
i don't know if this is actually sexual abuse though since were both kids and nether of us knew better. (i'm pretty sure he didn't know about sex then)
this is the first time i have ever told this to anyone and it just feels so strange, i feel relieved, but also nervous, i kinda feel like it's my fault even though i knew in no way it is.
so can anyone actually tell me if this is sexual abuse or if i'm overreacting to everything?
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Technically, yes? But he was also a child so he didn't know better. This is a rather awkward situation, and considering he acts like he doesn't remember it, he realized it was wrong and stopped, which is important. I suppose as long as he hasn't tried anything since, he didn't intend for you to be mentally hurt. You already said you know it isn't your fault which is good but I guess it's up to you whether you bring this to your parent's attention now or leave it in the past. Such a sensitive subject, you aren't overreacting. Such a strange situation, sorry I can't provide more solid advice
ReplyWhen I was a child kids would take each other's pants down and have a look. They would also play a game called 'doctors and nurses' which was the same sort of thing. Kids are very curious.
Replytechnically, yes, but i'm not sure about the part when you said that 'he didn't know about s*x then,' because as you said, he was 5 years older than you. if you were 6 at the time and he was 11, there's a very good chance that he knew about that. today's children know everything about that. but i can't be sure, but it doesn't seem a good sign that he denies everything and tries to distract you. he knew what you were doing whereas you didn't. you were a child, he was a preteen. don't feel bad, though, you can tell someone, go to a counceling session or a therapist. i'm so sorry. i hope you and your brother sort it out! good luck! <3
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