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Is it ok to have s3x in 7th grade. There is this really cute guy in my English and we are really good friends. He is still a virgin and so am I so we won't get any STDs or anything like that (at least I don't think). He was talking to me about how he wanted to lose it already (his V-Card) and I told him "Same lol" and he asked me "Since we both wanna lose it already, why not do it together?". He isn't the kind of guy who only wants s3x and then calls you a wh0r3 after. He is the opposite of that, actually. I want an honest opinion. Thxxxx (*^U^)人(≧V≦*)
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Make sure to use a condom anyway. Safety first. There's no use telling you not to have sex after all you're not going to listen to some stranger on the Internet. But I would suggest if you do decide to do it then be safe, use protection and make sure it's really what you want before you do it.
ReplyI think it is fine as long as you use some type of protection. I know a girl who had it at that age but she was doing it a lot and with a playboy who definitely wasn't a virgin. She got a major STD because she never used protection. As long as both of you feel like it is the right time for you then I think it is fine. It really depends on the person though.
ReplyHi sweetie, this is a freshman talking (I thought the opinion of someone near ur age will help). I understand, we all want to try new things, even me! It's all part of growing up. But honestly, s3x in general is very risky. Like most people, I suggest to wait until your older, hell even older than me. I have had family members have intercourse very young and get pregnant and/or regret it later in life. For now I suggest you two wait on it and enjoy other things, such as cuddling and holding hands. Much luv xoxoxo
ReplyThank you! I understand but right now, I really don't think we will regret this. I don't mean to send any hate towards you, but he knows that he isn't ready to be a dad just yet and he knows I'm not ready to be a mom. He knows to use protection and he is really good and staying in people's lives (That sounds bad but I meant it in a good way lol). I really feel like he is the only one I want to do it with. Thank you for the advice! ヾ(〃^∇^)ノ
ReplyVirginity is a special thing. You should wait til you're older and wiser. Not saying you're dumb at all I just think Middle school is way too young.
ReplyYeah, I get what you mean. Thx for the advice
ReplyVirginity is more of a societal construct than anything. Also, I think you are WAY too young to have s3x for the first time.
ReplyYeah, I get what you mean by the who society thing. And I understand that you think I'm young. Thank you for the advice
Replyvirginity is something special, especially for your first time. You should lose it to someone you know won't leave you and someone you can truly trust, hence you're giving them your body. there are other ways you guys can please each other.
ReplyHey, I just want to let you know that even if you’ve never had sex, you can still have STD’s or some other kind of sexually transmitted disease. Certain STI’s or STD’s (I forgot which, you can fact check me on this.) are passed down from parent to child. So don’t take it as a reason to not be safe.
ReplyHey girl! :) Just wanted to let you know that to be in 7th grade you are under age and it is illegal to be having sex. Never the less, you are your own person and can do what you want. You will have to think to yourself, am I ready to commit to something so important and life impacting? Is this boy worth it? Out of experience, many young men that young will want to give up there virginity but 99% of the time they are no where near ready and definitely not ready to treat you the way you should be treated. remember your worth, you are young and still a burst of life, you really don't need to be thinking about sex yet. And I don't know about you, but in seventh grade I definitely didn't know how to put a condom on (neither did the boys!) they didn't even know how to slide the penis into the vegina! If those words are scary or a joke to you, that may be the sign that you are not ready to be serious about the causes and changes sex will make to your life. One last thing, think about your parents, if u have any questions please go to them. it may be embarrassing but it should be! Would they be happy with you having sex at the young age you are?
ReplyThis is troll bait. So color me troll.
Seventh graders don't even know how to wipe their behind... much less have coitus.
Coitus is not something you do on a whim simply because you've never done it. There are soooo many consequences to engaging in coitus.
If you want to try something you've never tried - try something with minimum to no consequences. For example:
Run a marathon.
Learn a musical instrument.
Write a novel.
Make a short film.
Join a team - sports, debate, etc.
Get in the best shape of your young life.
Learn how to properly wipe your behind with wet wipes (see mud butt for context).
Lean how to cook a full course meal.
Yea. Lots of things you've probably never tried that have minimum to no circumstances.
ReplyHi. I don't think it's the best idea. That's a pretty young age to do it, and you might regret it in the future. I'd talk to your parents about it. If you do it, be sure to do your research about protection. I would reccomend a birth control pill (if possible), condoms, and some sort of spermicidal jelly or foam. Be very clear to this boy that protection is important.
ReplyI don't think my comment was super clear. I'm definitely not recommending sex, and it could be illegal. But you can do other things together. Maybe you could go to a nice dinner, or a movie, or something more age-appropiate. I'm just strongly recommending protection if you do get caught up in hormones.
ReplyMake sure its something you genuinely want and are ready for
ReplyI wouldn´t trust that guy so easily.
ReplyFrom what you wrote I don't think you're ready for it and don't recommend. Just because you both want to lose your v card isn't really a good excuse to have sex. After it's over it won't mean anything and you'll look back later in life possibly wishing youd waited for a more special time and person especially if he's the type of guy you say he is you'll likely regret it. My advice is wait and enjoy other things right now.
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