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Okay so first of all, i am not a parent but i just want to share my views or u can say that i want to pour my heart .
Parents think that just by giving facilities they end or by giving facilities they will show that how much they love us. But its not truly right!!! As in my thoughts...Parents forget that it is important to give a happy atmosphere at home, to make the child feel how important he/she is. Its important to encourage them. Its important to have a humble talk with them. Its important to keep calm with ur child. Its not necessary to always shout and scold them harshly like he/she starts hesitating and hating u. Dont overpower ur child that much that even he/she is not able to share a thing with u . Its not good to say that one day i will than u will know the importance of me / may be i should have killed u when u were born . U have to respect ur child too, u have to respect his/her feeling . U have to give her some peraonal space and privacy . U have to trust atleast her. U dont build that bond with ur child and then u complain about ur child involving in social media and friends rather than u . If child is behaving rude than talk to her try to understand the problem , dont just start scolding/shouting/blaming , it will ruin ur relation as parent.
The child trusts his parents the most and when this this relation ruins, chold break down . His faith in anyone breaks. He starts to think that my parents dont find me precious how can anyone else . He becomes ruthless.
So please try to understand ur child .
Make good memories and bond.
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Please read it carefully and share ur thoughts....i know its little offensive but its my own experience so dont hate me.
ReplyNow i will write with my username...... this is my writing
ReplyI agree with you
ReplyI completely agree with you, giving basic needs truly isn't enough to raise a child. I've been a victim of abuse my whole life and every time I try to talk to my parents about these things, it leads to another pointless scolding and they end up twisting the message saying its my fault. I hope this kind of message reaches other parents because I absolutely wish they would open their eyes to better parenting.
ReplyU r right thats why i have written it
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