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I have known this guy since I was little. He's cute, hot as hell and an amazing person. He's been my friend for so many years, and he tells me that he wants to be more than a friend to me. I got scared and said no, but now I feel attracted to him. I feel selfish for that. I do not want to be his girlfriend, but I want to do with him all a couple do. Am I been fair? What should I do?
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ReplyI really need any kind of advice, I'll be thankful for that
ReplyMaybe you are just not ready for a steady romantic relationship yet... If it were me, I would talk to him and tell him how you feel.
ReplyHe knows how I feel about that, I told him. He doesn't want to force anything, so he lets me decide what's going to happen between us. The truth is... I don't want to lose him either way.
Replywhy don't you want to be his girlfriend?
ReplyAs friends, we are literally perfect. I guess I don't want to lose that. I can be bipolar sometimes, and I don't want that to ruin our relationship or friendship.
Replymaybe you try to talk with and tell him how you feel :-)
ReplyI did :)
ReplyGive yourself sometime to think. And when you feel like you should go ahead, just go. Give it a chance. We will never know unless we try. The feeling of friendship will always remain the same.
ReplyI'll do that, thank you :)
ReplyFriends with benefits typically end up never speaking or seeing each other again... or they end up married. Then of course there are all the other possible outcomes.
What I have found in life is that the hardest thing to do is usually the correct thing to do. Best of luck.
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ReplyOmg, that's so true. I hope it ends well for both of us even if it isn't together...