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I just had fight with by boyfriend. He wanted me to send nudes with my face last night but I didn't want to and told him many times that I will not send because I had done in past and he blackmailed me. He blocked me last night and in morning I tried to call him and he unblocked me. I thought he would be sorry but he said that I think i should have mercy on you. And then our fight continued. And he started calling me sister so it gets on my nerve and texted him So you liplock your sister. And he didn't replied for this. He texted me that I am gonna suffer in future. And I replied that yeah karma works and if I had done anything wrong then it will work but you should also know about it that whatever goes around comes around. He got angry and texted me back that if I would be in front of me he would have surely beaten me alot. And I texted back sarcastically to play it cool but it really hurts. He blocked me again. What's your opinion. He made me feel like I am wrong but I hadn't done anything I just didn't agreed to send nudes with my face on it. And told him that I don't trust anyone 100% on this earth which is true. I am writing this and playing it cool till now but I know I am gonna brust in tears any second.
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he do not any rights to ask for things in which you are uncomfortable .Do not give in to these toxic relationship pressure ,stand on your ground .
ReplyYou know deep down that you have done nothing wrong- you actually did right by refusing to send him nude photos, but clearly your boyfriend is trying to manipulate you into feeling otherwise. That behavior is called gaslighting: it will mess up your mind, make you question your sanity, and even distort your memories. You deserve better, and you should not give this dude another chance.
Run girl, run.
ReplyI am messed up and stuck. I don't know how to do and what is right.
ReplyHis behavior right now is a preview of a possible future with him. You deserve someone who respects your boundaries, and this dude ain't doing it. The right thing for you to do would be to break up with him.
ReplyI dont this is a healthy partner… its your choice to stay but he doesnt seem sane
ReplyYou used toxic relationship in tags, so you know where your relationship is heading.
This is manipulating and gaslighting tactics people use to get what they want.
It's better to get rid of him as soon as possible.
He probably knows you won't leave that's why has taken you for granted.
Nobody forces you into anything if they truly love you, a healthy relationship needs mutual understanding and respect for one another.
Take care.
ReplyIt's just plain ABUSE. You are an abused person. Abuse is illegal. He's a criminal.
ReplyHe is not talking to me. He had blocked me and just unblocked me to ask if I am sending nudes to him or not. When I told him that I would not do it. He blocked me again. I don't know what I had done to deserve this.
ReplyHe. Is. An. A B U S E R. You have done absolutely nothing wrong. It appears to me that he has whittled away your confidence already and therefore this isn't the first time he's attempted to manipulate you. It is time to break up with him, so do it already. After doing so, don't entertain any idea of him changing his ways and for the love of all things good and holy DO NOT CONTACT HIM, else you'll get a second round of his bad behavior and possibly worse. I have seen this happen to my cousin, please do not allow it to happen to you.
ReplyHe blamed me that I don't trust him enough.
ReplyIf your boyfriend was a decent human being, he would respect your refusal to send him nude photos. He's blaming you because he wants you to feel so guilty that you wind up doing what he wants at the expense your self-worth. Don't fall for it.
ReplyAm I doing something wrong?😔
ReplyRefusing to send him nude photos was the right thing to do.
Sometimes, people in your life are not going to be happy with the decisions you make or don't make. The fact that they're upset does not necessarily mean you did something wrong. Here's one example: I am taking a break from college due to the pandemic and some family conflicts. My mother disagrees with my decision, and was even upset about it. But I know I am doing the right thing for myself, mentally and physically, even though my mother would say otherwise. You know you did the right thing by refusing to send him nude photos, even though your boyfriend is being such a piss baby about it and trying to make you feel guilty. Do what's right for yourself and dump his sorry ass, regardless of how he feels about it. Your physical safety and mental health are more important than the feelings of a trashy, manipulative boyfriend.
ReplyThanks!
ReplyWe broke up. I did right thing or wrong?
ReplySO RIGHT
Replybeen there done that, highly command u to break up with him. SERIOUSLY. nothing felt more freeing than exiting a toxic relationship. i PROMISE. have been in a toxic routine like yours for over 3 years then i've had enough then i ended everything and damn it felt so freeing
ReplyWell, I suggest you breakup with him. It might be hard , but if you don't ......your future will be really really hard. By listening to your words , I guess he is very abusive. You should not send nudes to anyone whom you don't trust. I know it might be very difficult to forget him (I assume you love him and that is why you are in relationship), but the things might change for something good!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK
ReplyRead your comment , BROKE UP
GREAT!!!!!
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