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I can't explain how horrible my father is to me. He's such a shitty person and he treats me like crap. He is extremely emotionally and verbally abusive. He favors my sister over me so she gets away with almost everything. He'll get her things she wants and treat her like a normal kid. But not me. I've always had no parents to lean on and I'm only 14. I wish I could go out and have fun like other kids my age. I have always had to grow up too fast and that I'm too mature for my age group. I never get a chance to relax here and if I try to, I get bashed for it. I want to move out so bad and get away from my dad. He is always getting mad at me for something. He gets mad at me for every little thing I do. When I'm near him, for showing emotion, for being gay, wanting to be myself and try new things. I could go on and on about everything but this would be too long. I have so many mental illnesses and he just invalidates them and says it's fake. He says I do everything for attention. I wish I could get out of this hell hole. I want to be able to talk to my friends and have my phone sometimes. I want to be a kid again. I guess I can't really be happy until I'm 18 haha...
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I've dealt with a situation where my step dad was not right, Jarhead basically and no mater if I fought or run away. I figured out after a while how to avoid what was needed but it's different depending on a person and situation. I believe he just mad at the rest of people making the things you like or want look bad. He just doesn't fully believe in what you see or believe in or just something. Only thing to do is never give up, life has a lot for you to discover. It might be hard or not but just try to figure out 100% what is the main reasons, his reasons, there could be emotional over drive, probably has to much stress and just can't understand what is needed to be done and is declining / won't accept something because of the connection. Look what Im trying to say is, he has a problem that's causing that probability, help figure a way to fix something someone is blind to fix and it will also help fix your problem just effort is needed. Even if the differences are there, he loves ya, just there's something that he doesn't understand and it scares him but he takes it off in a bad way. Don't need to change just need to make both connections understand and than you may be able to get everything back on. Please don't give in or up on you or your family because there's always a reason and a way to fix it. :)
Replythank you so much for the advice and support! I really appreciate it
ReplyStart going to a bible teaching church. It may surprise him and you too.
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